You have to see an oculoplastic surgeon to figure out if your right eye is too low or your left too high. If you have a ptosis on the right, the left may be pulling up too much. When you fix the right upper eyelid the left one will fall a little. If you have any thyroid issues, the left lid may be too high.
Short focal length lens cause tremendous axial and barrel distortion of the face. I also think you are being overly critical of yourself. On the other hand it does seem like your left upper eyelid might be a little retracted. This can sometimes be due to thyroid eye disease. I recommend that you consider seeing an oculoplastic surgeon. The American Society for Ophthalmic Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery maintains a geographic directory on its website that will help you find a well qualified surgeon to assess you close to home (ASOPRS dot org).