Any non-surgical and surgical ways to fix uneven eyes? (photos)

My eyelids have been uneven since childhood. I fear I might have a lazy eye, but I don't know for sure what it is I have. I can even "feel" the difference between my eyelids just by looking up - I can see higher in my right eye than my left eye. My eyelids make me extremely self conscious. Eyelid tapes seem not to work for me. They make my left eye lid feel awkward, and even water.

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