If your skin is tired looking and large pores then there are a few different treatments which could improve your skin. The rosacea and redness can be improved with the V-beam laser which will also help with overall texture. Since you are only 31, the Fraxel or mini-Fraxel (Clear and Brilliant) Laser would help restore the luster, tone, and texture. You should discontinue using the products that are not working and drying your skin. Please find a board certified dermatologist in your area who has a lot of experience with cosmetics for the best results.