This can happened especially if you had more brusing and or swelling on that side post op.Het and massage can help eliminate this.You are just over 2 months so I would give it some more time.
Unfortunately, it is difficult to provide guidance without pictures or an actual examination. However, generally speaking, it can take 6-12 months after surgery to be completely healed. Please stay in close contact with your surgeon to discuss any concerns you may have.
First of all there's no benefit to lymphatic massage it might actually aggravate the problem is to vigorous. It the swelling is significant this should be reported to your surgeon is it might indicate in untreated hematoma or seroma.
Since no posted photos very hard to over the internet advise. Best to seek in person paid second opinions...
Thank you for your question.
Without examining you, physically feeling the tissue, assessing your desired outcome, taking a full medical history, and discussing the pros and cons of any further treatments it is difficult to be comprehensive.
3 months following your surgery there should not be a substantial amount of swelling where others (outside of you and the surgeon) could detect.
I would contact your surgeon and ask what is the next best step and to ensure you are on the correct path to healing.
Best of luck,
One of the more humbling things about the practice of medicine is that we can do similar operations on 10 different people and get 10 different results. Anything can happen. Keep in touch with your surgeon. If your surgeon feels perplexed with your results then perhaps you should ask your surgeon for a referral with another board certified plastic surgeon for more suggestions on optimizing your recovery.
What you describe is not typical after facelift, but certainly possible. You should continue to keep your surgeon informed of your progress and trust him to help with your concerns.
It is unusual to have a swollen neck like you described after a facelift. Contact your surgeon for an exam ,so that he can determine the cause. Best wishes!