I am having a hernia and diastases recti repair surgery. I chickened out on the tummy tuck because I am concerned about recovery

I'm still so conflicted about my decision. I have two small kids age 2 and 5. I decided to forgo the tummy tuck and lipo. I am concerned about the recovery and pain associated with the tummy tuck. I am scheduled to have the hernia and diastases repair And they are telling me the recovery is basically two weeks and little activity before six weeks. That seems to be the same advice given to tell me tuck patients. I hate my belly and would love it the full procedure but don't want to be selfish

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