Dear Church Lady - I THINK the prime message of Christianity is LOVE, FORGIVENESS and TOLERANCE. - Matthew 7:1-2 Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. - Romans 2:1 You, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for at whatever point you judge the other, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the same things. - Romans 14:10,13 10You, then, why do you judge your brother? Or why do you look down on your brother? For we will all stand before God's judgment seat. 13...therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another... - 1 Corinthians 4:5 - Therefore judge nothing before the appointed time; wait till the Lord comes. He will bring to light what is hidden in darkness and will expose the motives of men's hearts. At that time each will receive his praise from God. John 8:7 He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her. A true Christian follows in the path and tradition of Jesus Christ. A true Christian believes in God's unconditional love and tries to imitate and follow in Jesus' step as much as a human can. He / she leads by example not by intimidation and coersion. Instead of asking, Spanish Inquisition / Salem Witch trials puritanical inquisition style Plastic Surgeons to defend themselves for making peoples lives bertter by increasing others' self-confidence and outer beauty , shouldn't a true Christian, who benefits and wants to emulate God's unconditional love, instead be asking why is it really wrong to help another moral human feel and look better? Would a true caring person NOT want to do this for his neighbor? Isn't the lesson of Christianity one of real love and tolerance rather than one of judgment and harsh criticism for real and imaginary transgression? But, God loves you, you already know the answer to that.