I am a 21 year old male and on June 10 I got a tummy tuck and a modified thigh tuck. I have lost about 150lbs so I knew it was time. I ddin't have an absolute ton of loose skin like some major weight loss stories, but I had quite a bit on my stomach and in my inner thighs I just could not get rid of so I decided to get this surgery done. I was extremely excited to get it done and my doctor said because I wasn't getting that much removed and because of my age I should have a really speedy recovery, but that has not been the case.I didn't get my drains out until the 2 week mark, but this is likely because the night I got out of surgery, when I stood up in my hotel for the first time I fainted instantly and fell. I didn't rip anything, but I did cause a lot more blood for my drains and my doctor said it's put me back about a week. So, perhaps physicall I am still at the 1 week post-op point.My major cause of depression and anxiety is feeling like I am bigger than before I got the surgery. I feel like my stomach will go down and may even look good when this is all over, but I'm super concerned about my thighs. My thighs look absolutely huge and definitely bigger than before surgery to me, but my doctor swears up and down 1) thats physically impossible as they only took away, not added and 2) he says my thighs aren't very swollen at all and look good. I am having major depression and anxiety attacks over my thighs because they are seriously as fat as pancakes now and plus my pubic area is extremely large (probably from my tummy tuck) and I'm just worried about being permanently stuck in this condition if this, as my doctor claims, basically isn't swelling. My doctor has been doing this for over 20 years, he seems to have done a great job with people in the past, etc. The only thing I definitely disagree with him on is he told me after 2 weeks it was safe to take my stomach compressor off. I don't know why he would tell me that. He swears it won't change my results at this point and that it was mostly for first 2 weeks healing. From what I've read online I should keep this compressor on as long as possible, and to me it seems logical to keep it onPlease tell me there is a light at the end of this tunnel. That I'm not stuck with huge, pancake swollen thighs and my this groin that's going to make it where my penis is permanently buried. How can my doctor tell me I don't have that much swelling at all. I just can't believe him. I don't know what to do and I can't stop crying off and on. I've tried talking with my doctor about all these concerns and fears but he keeps assuring me that even though im making a little slower progress I am doing fine.....