I'm having a BA consultation in mid-July and am hoping they can fit me ASAP afterwards for the procedure. I have a 5 and 2 year old. The 2 year old is still in a crib. Should I transition him into a toddler/regular bed now or will I be able to lift him about a week out of surgery? I realize the pain and soreness will most likely be there but is it impossible? I'm a SAHM and don't have anyone that can help me THE ENTIRE time I'm healing.