For those of you who have already had one....how long till you could pick up your children? I am have a lift and augmentation on Apri 14th but am thinking of also doing a tummy tuck ( I am talking to the Dr monday but am curious to know from those who already have done it). I have my sister here to help the first 10 days after but then I'm on my own. Would I be ok to lift my children after 10 days or not? Also My Husband gets back from Deployment First week of July.....After 12 weeks would I be healed enough (on average) to go on a vacation...like a cruise?