How do you deal with Judgmental comments?
- Utah, UT
- 4 months ago
I have not told many people, including my own grown children, I just feel like it is my body and really it is none of their business. I have sons and daughters. The boys I think won't care and the girls will "worry" I will probably tell them afterwards (or they will notice I am sure). I did tell a few friends, one was super supportive the other one I told when we met for lunch the other day, we have not seen each other for a year or so,so it was a fun catch up. Her reaction surprised me, when I told her I was getting the TT she narrowed her eyes and said "why? you look great?" uhmmm well I don't feel like I look great and it is something I have wanted to do for over 10 years? The irony is she had breast implants over 20 years ago and to feel judged by her size two self rubbed me the wrong way.