I got a BA when I finally decided, "I'm worth it!" June 2nd, 2020. So far I am thrilled.
My Stats:
5'7
125lbs
36A ... hoping for a large C or small D
12.5 BWD
375 cc moderate plus
Sub muscular
With my BWD, Mentor only gave me two options: 325 cc or 375 cc. I chose the larger size and I still fear it's too small. But so far, recovery has been a breeze! I am amazed.... no nausea and next to no pain. My doc doesn't recommend ice or massage and I have followed the directions on the pain pills exactly as prescribed. Sad to see my weight has gone up more than 10 lbs! Can't exercise but I am still eating like a maniac. Still, wish I had done this sooner!
Updated on 8 Jun 2020:
It’s exciting to see the progress each day! I was pretty disappointed on Day 1 with how small they looked. Almost like I hadn’t had surgery at all! But Day 5 looks much better to me.
On the downside, the weight gain is real. I am up 12 lbs. I would like to think it’s all bloating, but with no nausea and a massive sweet tooth, I’ve been overeating. It’s really difficult not to exercise. I have bulimia 2, which means I am a compulsive eater and exerciser. It’s killing me not to work out. But my caregiver (Mom) is watching me like a hawk. Plus, it’s such an investment and a life long dream, I don’t want anything to mess it up. I am off the narcotics and simply taking Tylenol. Other than some general breast tenderness like PMS, everything is going great. Although I must admit I’m pretty numb overall. I’ve read many reviews that dislike the post compression bra, but I love mine. I don’t want to be without it. (Wacoal sports bra with an underwire, per my doc). I see him again in two days for a follow up. Also, I must remember to enroll in the Mentor warranty program. I think you only have a limited time to do that post surgery. Wishing you all the best with your BA journeys and trying to be patient with me. Ha ha.
Updated on 12 Jun 2020:
Quick and painless appointment with the doc to remove the steri strips. Scars looked worse than I had hoped, but he gave me special oil to apply to the incision sites 3 times daily. No “morning boob” like I have read about, but I do have some all over tenderness throughout the day and general numbness. No constipation but still feeling bloated. He also tightened the straps on the sports bars by a knotch... not quite as comfy but still feels so much better with the bra on than off. Sleeping has not been a problem. Still very happy I did this!
Updated on 18 Jun 2020:
Recovery still going great, but the sports bra is starting to feel a little tight. Wishing there was more drop and fluff. The side and oblique profiles look ok but the front profile isn’t so attractive and the scars looks terrible. Have an occasional zinger (sharp breast pain lasting a moment... likely nerve related as they rebuild) but no “morning boob,” which is to say discomfort when I wake up. My boobs are pretty warm though and not much sensation in the nipples, though they don’t feel good to be touched. So hard not to exercise! Especially when I feel fine, but only one more week to go before I can do some incline walking. Trying to resist the urge to buy lingerie, but I did but the bralette from Free People recommenced by expert Jenny Eden. Still very happy I got this done.
Updated on 23 Jun 2020:
Finally cleared for a little exercise. Yay! Walking and a little bit of abs. My doc said laying on the floor with my hand crossed over my chest (yoga corps pose I think) and lifting my feet into the air, scissors or kicking the ceiling seemed reasonable because it would still allow me to limit lateral movement. (Make sure to check with your doctor before trying just to be cautious ). I have a medicine ball so thigh squeezes and hamstrings tomorrow. No bouncing or lifting or lunging obviously.
Still no “morning boob” .... almost no feeling actually. Kind of seems like I am wearing a padded bra. But I’ve seen a little progress this week compared to last week. Seems slightly fuller. Slow process. Wish my stretch marks weren’t obvious, but I also started with some stretch marks, so I don’t think I can blame the surgery. Lol. Slightly concerned that my nipples are getting larger and they are easily and often erect. Hoping I won’t always appear to have “headlights.” Still worth it.
Updated on 1 Jul 2020:
Just returned from my visit with the doctor. Normally women get a check up six weeks after the procedure but because I have to fly home to South Carolina, I had to meet with my doctor at four weeks. So far he says I’m right on track. I told him that my breasts were very warm and numb. He said that’s normal. Zero pain. A little stiff/tight. One thing that I really like is that he fixed a lot of the asymmetry I had naturally. If you look at the before picture on the bottom left you’ll see a lot of asymmetry. He worked hard to adjust for that during the surgery. It’s hard to be patient. I’m not happy with the look just yet. Still looks weird to me. But I also know that I have about two more months to go before everything will settle. It’s also difficult because I can see how much weight I’ve gained... About 7 pounds. I’m getting back into exercise but it takes forever to take the week off. So again, I have to remind myself to be patient. I really don’t mind the sports bra at all. Actually I prefer the support. That’s a good thing, LOL, because I’ll be living in it for another two months. It’s not a problem to sleep on my side. Having tons of fun buying a few new outfits! In terms of the scar, it’s definitely visible but I’m seeing a lot of progress over the last few days. I took the picture on top a few days ago vs. three weeks below.
Updated on 15 Jul 2020:
I just reached six weeks. Good news and bad news. I think my breasts are developing nicely although my right breast nipple (your left) seems to veer over to the side. Also that breast is slightly smaller than the other one. It needs to drop and fluff a bit more. I know that’s common so I’ll just have to wait for the rest of my results. I’m only halfway there. Overall it’s a joy to look in the mirror and see breasts. Unbelievable!! The bad news is that I seem to have a poor reaction to the sutures on that same breast. I just posted pictures of the redness that has developed. I sent pictures to my surgeon and he said not to worry. He said antibiotics are optional. I chose to take them so I will start tomorrow. It doesn’t hurt. I just don’t want any kind of infection. And I certainly don’t want scars. He says I shouldn’t use my emu oil until things heal. Otherwise things are still great. I bought my first real lingerie last week... The bra of my dreams. I’m so delighted! But I only tried it on. As you know, you have to wear your sports bra 24/7 for three months. I still don’t have any feeling in my breasts. No pain just numb. As of now I’m fitting into a 36C cup. Remarkably I still fit most of my old clothes, though I threw away all of my old bras yesterday. Still wish I could be slightly bigger. I finally have a little cleavage but more would be better. But I went as big as my surgeon would allow based on mentor implants and my breast with the diameter. Still working to lose weight. I gained a total of 9 pounds while staying with my caregiver. But I’m back home now in South Carolina and ready to get back on my diet.
Updated on 21 Jul 2020:
After five days on antibiotics things are looking much better. The redness surrounding the sutures seems to have gone away. As soon as I’m officially done with the course of treatment I will resume the emu oil. However I’m starting to see some big asymmetry. One breast is dropping faster than the other. And one nipple points straight ahead while the other points outward. Hopefully this will correct itself over the next month.
Updated on 1 Sep 2020:
It's been 13 weeks since the surgery. That means I can get back to my fitness routine and I don't have to wear a sports bra anymore. Although I like to anyway. Not only to protect my breasts but it feels good to be supported. Even though they're not heavy (375 ml). I think they were fully developed around nine weeks. I absolutely love them and I'm so grateful I had this done. I wish I had it done sooner. It feels right. No doubts ever. But I'm disappointed they're not bigger. I went as big as I could go based on the manufacturer (mentor) recommendation. And I also started with barely anything. I also wish they were symmetrical. One breast is slightly larger than the other and the nipples are not pointing in the same direction at the same level. As my surgeon wrote, surgery may heighten any natural or previous asymmetry. I wish I had known that previously to set my expectations, even though I would still do it again. My breasts felt very hot for about 10 weeks and then it suddenly went away. I don't have feeling when I go to touch my breasts. Numb. It doesn't bother me but it's something to consider. And they feel tight and slightly painful if you squeeze them. They are slightly soft but still riding high. I like the overall shape so I'm not in a hurry to have them drop any more. All the more reason to wear my sports bra. I still haven't shared my results with anyone. I guess I'm afraid they will think the incisions are ugly. But I need to get over what others think. Also the weight gain has been difficult. I worked so hard to have my perfect body only to gain 15 pounds. But I will lose it! It's still fun to look in the mirror and think, "wow." It's hard to picture me with my old breasts. I've already gotten used the look of my new breasts. It feels like this is the way it should've always been.
Updated on 28 Sep 2020:
Nearly 4 months after the surgery my breasts have dropped but they are still fairly tight. But I really like the round shape so I am OK with that. For the most part they are still numb. On the plus side I never had any pain whatsoever from the surgery. On the negative side I lost feeling. We’ll see if that comes back in a few months.
Updated on 3 Jan 2021:
Seven months after surgery I am finally back down to my normal weight. Feels great! They don’t move much. But I love the overall shape. I’m disappointed I couldn’t go bigger. I don’t understand why other women were able to go to a higher volume but my doctor followed the mentor guidelines which wouldn’t let me go above 375. (BWD 12.5) What I really wanted is 425. The other thing that bothers me is asymmetry. I didn’t know that there are three types: volume, shape, and nipple alignment. My surgeon says my nipples were naturally not aligned and the surgery exacerbated that. Ok. But they are different volumes and that’s what bothers me the most. I specifically asked if we should go with a different volume in each implant to fix this. I was told it would be “imperceptible.” It’s not. Overall the shape seems pretty symmetrical however due to the volume difference it’s not exact. Overall I am pleased except for the volume difference. But my number one concern was health and safety. I was in excellent hands and had a dream recovery. No pain ever! Seriously.. Of course I’ve been numb since surgery. Feeling is slightly coming back. That’s not a big deal to me. Overall I wish I had done this sooner. It’s a dream come true. And I don’t think of them like implants. They are simply my boobs and my body. Love yourself because you’re worth it too. Also, I’ve given up on push-ups because they feel weird. And anytime I slightly contract my pecs, my boobs look weird. Wasn’t expecting that.
Updated on 27 Sep 2023:
This is the best thing I’ve ever done for myself. I think your identity changes. People change the way they treated me. They treated me like I was the ideal For example, I was asked to be on the cover of a dating app. I started to see myself differently, set boundaries and raise expectations. I always struggled with boundaries and self-esteem. Getting augmentation is not the answer to low self-esteem, but for me, your self-concept becomes your reality. The more I engaged in healthy behaviors, and a positive self perception the more I started to believe it. And again people treated me differently. I feel like I was always meant to be this person. I feel more like me. At a full C small D cup I can be discreet and hide my chest or show it off. No one knew until I told them I had the surgery. My breasts are not too heavy. I wear my encapsulated sports bra (wacoal) all the time. So comfortable. I went a little crazy shopping for my new look. In debt haha. I also went a little crazy showing off at cocktail lounges. I’m now a little bit more reserved and classy. LOL it’s like I had to get it out of my system. I’ve always dreamed of that why not?? I still have some asymmetry, but if you see the before pictures, it is night and day better. I also still have the movement when I contract my pecs. It’s called an animated deformity and very rare. Not something the surgeon did. I decided not to get revision surgery because they are beautiful now. I am so happy and can’t imagine life without them. Wishing you all an incredible and happy journey. ????