I am a 45 year old Mom, for stats, 5’7”, 138lbs. I have 3 beautiful kids who were large babies. The first was 10.7 pounds and the second batch were twins who weighed 15 pounds together. Before babies I was 125 lbs and was always thin. A few weeks before I had the twins I was 200 pounds and the doctor said I measured at 52 weeks, woo hoo! These kids are the best thing that happened to me but I was left looking permanently pregnant and with back pain and a big gap between my muscles, diastasis, that would not improve even with PT.I also had an umbilical hernia after my first, which was repaired. The thing that bothered me most was the feeling like my guts were falling out. Don’t know the proper medical term for that but it is not a good feeling and I forever felt like I was going to rip something or knock something loose in there. My twins are crazy as well and are prone to punching and sneak-attacking me at all hours.When they would punch me I felt like it was a blow to the inner core of my being, ha! Hard to explain. Onward to the decision to proceed. I don’t know how I made it over the hump of obsessive researching, reading, thinking, anxiety, worrying for years - to the appointment making. Somehow I did it. To the last moment I was hemming and hawing (is that a word?) but figured I am healthy and I am only getting older so I went for it.Another piece is that I lost 20 pounds during Covid and although that made me feel much better, it made me look a few more months pregnant. So fast forward to today, thank the universe the surgery went well, no issues to date except a bit of bleeding from the incision a few days after.I am so glad it’s done! It’s painful when laughing, sneezing, coughing, and I have to lay down to relieve the pressure of the binder during the day, but I am very happy with my luck so far. I am not crazy for my belly button but hey I’m not a Barbie and the dr said I had nothing left, the umbilical stalk was not attached to anything so she had to make the BB from scratch. Maybe it will improve with time. Thanks for reading and good luck and feel free to ask questions if you have any.
Updated on 2 Mar 2021:
Yay! Everything going smooth. Had my 2 week post op yesterday. Dr gave the ok to start massaging everything with coconut oil daily. Still wearing the binder 24/7 and icing with my amazing TheraPearl ice pack that I have fallen in love with. No complaints except that I have to return to work tomorrow (ugh!!!). Can’t believe I was so frightened of this surgery for literally years and I have been so lucky, all is well.
Updated on 4 Mar 2021:
Phew! I have a stressful desk job and had to return yesterday to work ( from home). I survived. I haven’t sat upright in a chair for 8 hours for the past 2 weeks. Seems like it would be easy but this binder is a killer. Lots of vitamin c powder, green tea and water, oh and my icy love, TheraPearl. Got some stretchy pants in the mail because I fear putting on pants with a zipper and button when I have to go into the actual office Monday. I will attach a pic. I’m not a model but omg I am happy that my tummy is no longer bigger than my boobs. Woo hoo! Lol.
Updated on 7 Mar 2021:
Hello. Yesterday was rough. I don’t know why in particular but I felt so teary, sore and exhausted, I just couldn’t cope. Part of it is probably pms and also so much stuff to do around the house and I can barely do a thing and still can’t lift over 5 lbs. I realized maybe I need to eat more so I will try that today. I think the binder makes me feel stuffed all the time because there’s no room to expand. Or maybe it’s my muscles being repaired, I don’t know. But I feel full always. And probably my body needs food to heal. My family has been great through this but I just need a break from everyone. A day where I can lie around and be miserable if I need to, without affecting anyone else. Today is a new day. Hopefully I won’t be as sore and exhausted. Like I read so much on here, healing is different for everyone and there are stages to it. Maybe I am in a rough stage. I wish happy healing to you all! Thanks for listening to me vent.
Updated on 17 Mar 2021:
4 weeks, hard to believe. I obsessively read reviews on here and worried for years and now in the blink of an eye I have my old tummy back. Not my old BB but I can deal with the new one. I have read if you are slim that it can be hard to make an innie BB if doc has to make one from scratch, which mine did. Has anyone heard this before?
Not much change since last update. Sore and burning pains here and there and still can’t stand 100% straight up so I look hunchy. My binder rubs/ is tight against my hip bones and incision and that doesn’t feel good. Still wearing the binder 24/7, ugh! But can’t go without it or I just don’t feel right. Look forward to buying new clothes without having to hide the pregnant belly look. Omg maybe I could wear a dress again! Still worn out and would like more time to relax. Missing walking and biking for exercise but that will be a possibility soon enough. Belly button is still weird. Flat. But I will get used to it. I feel so grateful that I was able to have this done. I was so worried about every under the sun. The two docs I met with said I didn’t need Lipo but so many people have it as part of the TT. I was worried about not having it but I guess I’m ok without it. I think I had more skin than fat to remove, not sure if that’s why I didn’t need it. Feel down some days and my mind wants to start picking at every other imperfection I have but I try to stay in grateful mode and appreciate that we are all different and each have our own beauty. Please ask any questions if you have them. Thanks to all of you who I have gained support from just by reading your reviews!
Updated on 11 Apr 2021:
Hello. I am doing well physically. Still sore and abdomen is sensitive but not terrible. Swelling but not bad. At last PO appointment about 2 weeks ago the doctor told me to wean off the binder. I have been doing that. It was very uncomfortable at first not to have it on but I’m slowly easing into it. I have been wearing some compression tanks and that seems to help. Having a bit of a mental challenge. It’s always been an issue for me, that of comparing myself to others. I told myself before the surgery but I just wanted to be my old self and not compare myself to other people.Now that it’s over I notice I’m starting to compare myself to other people again. So I’m working on that. It helps to look at my preop pictures and remember how far I’ve come. And comparing yourself to others is never a good idea. We’re all different.. So that’s it for now I suppose oh yeah Dr. has me using bio corneum. Which is kind of a weird texture and feels like plastic and has kind of toxic stuff in it but I’m just doing what she says. I think it was $120 but it comes Included in the surgery. I prefer coconut oil but I’m doing what she says. Ask any questions if you have any. Good luck everybody. Ps I had fun trying old my old clothes today when the kids would leave me alone for 5 seconds. I tried on my first dress post surgery, woo hoo! And I. Don’t. Look. Pregnant. Amazing!