I have always had a small chest. I remember it somewhat bothering me in high school and college, but it was more of a passing thought when I’d put on certain clothes, swimsuits, or were around other females that actually had breasts.
I always liked the shaped of my boobs and feeling more confident naked rather than in clothes, because the clothes just covered up the little curves that I had.
When I got pregnant, my boobs grew some, but only to a full B. After having my two boys, my old tiny perky boobs looked more like deflated balloons. That’s when the size started affecting my confidence. Everyday when I got dressed it would bother me. I didn’t like when my husband touched my chest because it made me self conscious- like he had to search for something to grab.
My last straw was (on 2 separate occasions) 2 male friends of ours compared my body to a 14 year old boy. They meant it as a compliment, trying to say I was in shape, so I was not upset with them one bit. But I told my husband that if any other fit women walked out in a bikini, those men wouldn’t have compared her to an adolescent boy, they would have said she was hot, had a good body, or compared her to a model/actress.
I tried so hard to accept what’s a god has given me. I prayed, I read blogs about the good, bad, and ugly of boob jobs but just couldn’t get it off my mind. My husband said when we would get ready for date nights I’d be blaring music and dancing and getting ready, as soon as I put my clothes on, my mood would flip. He didn’t care one way or the other if I got the boob job or not, he just wanted me to be happy.
I told him I would book a consult so we could go together and learn more and decide if this was actually something I wanted to do. To be honest, I was hoping the consult would talk me out of it.
We booked a consult at Iowa Plastic Surgery. It was like a fun date night for us! The surgeon, Dr Van Raalte, his assistant, Maureen, and the nurse, Gina were all so wonderful. I left the consult knowing that I wanted to move forward with scheduling the surgery.
I took a bunch of before photos from different angles and in different swim tops, bras, my fav tops, and some clothes that I want to wear but don’t feel confident in due to my chest size. At this time, I was barely filling out an A cup.
Updated on 1 Jul 2019:
Pre-Op I showed the surgeon my wish pics and said I’d like 375 CC. He explained what I am showing him and what size I am picking do not match up. He measured me and explained to get the look I’ve been showing him I would need 495CC. He explained very in-depth textured vs smooth implants, round vs anatomical, and salience vs silicone.
He was so knowledgeable, matter-of-fact and confident in his explanation that I said “you’re the professional and have been doing this for 33 years, I’ll take your opinion over my 6 months of Google” We paid for the procedure right then and there.
I left excited, but I am not going to lie. On the ride home I had a little bit of panic “did I just choose a ginormous implant?!”
I ended up emailing to dcotor’s Assistant my concerns and she responded promptly and reassured me the doctor’s recommendation will be ideal so my shape. She even had me send my “wish photos” so the doctor can look them over.
Updated on 2 Jul 2019:
I am writing this 5 day’s post-op. I was pretty out of it after my surgery and slept most the rest of the day. My husband has been great at keeping my 3 and 1 year old entertained and out of the bedroom.
The 2nd day I was getting antsy so I was about our home, we even had company over for a pool party and I just laid out in my sexy surgical bra and band. The soreness the first 3 days is pretty intense, it’s hard to move past a certain range of motion. I feel like I probably was pushing the limits on this as I don’t like feeling useless.
Sleeping is the hardest because you have to sleep in your back and at an angle. I don’t get much sleep at night. It seems I sleep the best between 4 am and 7 am. My boobs hurt the worst right when I get up in the morning. I tired laying on my side - BIG NO! So I comfortable. Listen to your doctor!
On day 3 I was down to only taking an Oxycodone 1x in the morning. The soreness/pain has subsided for the most part, my boobs are now just firm and feel engorged. There is some pain from my bruising on the sides below my armpit, underneath, and swollen and bruised on my sternum (the sternum is the most painful), but nothing that require pain medication. I have to take my surgical band off a few times throughout the day and night to give my sternum some relief. I have ridden with my husband in the vehicle and basically just hold onto my boobs he entire time because any bump hurts.
I do sometimes get a weird pain in my armpit and the other night I had a weird Charlie horse type feeling in my right calf. This kind of scared me because I had a previous blood clot after giving birth to our first son, however my surgeon already had me taking blood thinners starting the day after my surgery so that gave me some peace of mind.
I am so bloated from the surgery. Have put on 10 pounds. I know it’s probably from the implants themselves, all the fluid from surgery, and not being able to have a BM yet (I started stool softeners and Miralax on Day 3, wish I would have started sooner)
Updated on 15 Jul 2019:
I have been selling great! The first week and a half I had lightening bolts of pain with certain movements or randomly throughout the day, but the pain that I’ve experienced throughout this process is what I have expected.
I feel like I may feel TOO good that I’ve been doing more than what I’ve been cleared to do for example lifting my boys (my husband had unexpected travel for work, so last week and this week I’ve been single parenting our two boys [ages 1 & 3]) I feel like all the lifting and the amount of stretching and reaching in my normal daily activities may be preventing my incisions from healing incorrectly...? My surgeon was concerned last week nd asked me if I smoked (I do not) he asked if anyone in my home smoked (they do not) he then told me to start putting ointment and gauze on my incision everyday. While my husband was home this weekend, I took advantage of having him home and tried to do as little of lifting as possible.
NOW, let’s get to my boobs. I am so beyond happy wit them! The size is perfect and I am happy I listened to my surgeon. I have had MANY MANY MANY compliments on them. Everyone who has seen them said the size is perfect for my frame and the boobs look like they re just a part of me and have always been there :) My husband is happy with them as well. The photos I shared were for my husband and are in a sports bra and swim top that I owned which are now both too small.
Updated on 15 Jul 2019:
Love love love!!! They look so natural and go with my slim-ish figure.
Updated on 20 Jul 2019:
i feel fantastic and I think that’s the issue. I am doing way more activity (I have 2 littles) than I my body is actually prepared to handle.
Last week my dr said my incision on my right breast was healing slower than expected. He was quite shocked and had told me that I am healing the way he would expect his 70 year old smoking patients to heal (I’m 28 and do not smoke). He said sometimes the dissolvable sutures just don’t work on certain people so he stitched me back up with nylon(?) stitches this week. He told me to “just relax and take it easy!” So I’ve been trying to lift my kids less and do less reaching movements, etc.
I was so happy he had a solution. I was worried my scars were going to be wide, by looking at the stitches, think they’ll heal beautifully!
Last week he had me start antibiotic cream with gauze on the incision 2x/day and an antibiotic pill. He also told me to start taking vitamin C and the nurse suggested I increase my protein intake. I have also just started with vitamin-E oil on the incision as well (this was recommended by a friend)
Updated on 18 Aug 2019:
6 weeks post op- I love them. My hubby loves them. I get lots of compliments on them!
Photos were ones that my hubby requested while he was traveling \_O_/