I am 53, an have done child 19 years ago. Every since my body has never been the same. Then my daughter grows up and she has the breasts once belly I once had. I met an incredible partner who has supported me an helped me with this life changing decision. I am scheduled with Dr. Arie Dorenbaum. I chose him based on. Reference from a friend. Also, because of his website, an videos. It was easy to chat with him over the phone and felt very comfortable. I am within 8 pounds of my target weight, just before Thanksgiving. It's hard to believe I will be recovering this time next week! Chow! Updated on 30 Nov 2019: Well it was difficult dieting through Thanksgiving, but I think I did really well. I’m drinking lots of water and prepping a shopping list. I’ve found so many wonderful suggestions here! My Dr. asked or more pictures. During our video consultation he wasn’t sure exactly what I would need. I was pretty sure I needed the hernia repair. My pictures were too good-that he felt I will need a tummy tuck. Yuck. I’m reading the hip to hip scar. Why can’t he just stay inside my c section scar? I see him on the 3rd when we fly into Mexico City. Then first hint of morning I will be heading to the hospital. 2days to prepare and pack. I’ll b gone 17 days till I come home. The clock is now ticking loudly into my head... Updated on 5 Dec 2019: All the info everyone has mentioned has helped prepare me. Dr. Dorenbaum is super sweet. I was very comfortable meeting with him and discussing my options. So of course I had my nails done or Thanksgiving. Well I was told that they monitor me though my fingernail with monitors.   I've got a great handsome nurse that will provide great care for me. Guess I will be staying overnight in the hospital, because of the tummy tuck. He said he would transfer as much fat to my buttocks as possible, but it won't make a huge difference like a Brazilian butt lift.   I thought I was a really small C cup but with weight loss I was a b cup. We decided to go for a full C or he may decide to go to 300cc  If they look right.   I'm thinking my ass is going to hurt, & my stomach and boobies. How to get comfortable will be a challenge.   Time to get ready for bed and my big day tomorrow! Updated on 6 Dec 2019: So when have you ever had a doctor under promise and over deliver? My first night was horrible today must admit! I was nauseous and in pain and nothing seemed help. My doctor came back to the hospital and stayed all night. I had a reaction to something and he was concerned. Day two is much better but they want me to stay one more night. I'm most amazed t how good the nurses are in n Mexico, even if my Spanish is minimal. Thy have hit my vein spot on each time. Seems I'm a pin cushion in the states. I've had the most excellent care.