Am going to be Andrew Hodges doll soon. Wow, I can’t believe I made it here. Am a mother of 3 kids with diastasis recti. After my last child, I realized that something was odd with my stomach. When I lie on my back, I see movements around my belly button and sometimes a protrusion. Then I went for scan and found out my stomach wall was separated. I tried so many exercises but it got worst. Finally I I settled for surgery but I chickened out twice but now am ready to do it. I meet with my PS today and he answered all my questions and my heart is at peace. All my fears gone though my only worry is pain and recovery but am good to go.Updated on 25 Aug 2018:
Am really glad to be here. I have been reading people’s reviews and now am writing mine.i work out a lot but as I was on the thread mill, I remembered my ps being worried about getting enough fat to transfer to my breast cos he said I have very little fat to harvest and he can’t do a Lipo on my stomach cos it might affect the healing of my tummy tuck so the only place he can get fat from is above my butt which will have an upside for me cos my butt will be well defined. So should I stop working out to avoid losing fat?Updated on 29 Aug 2018:
I made payment on Monday so there’s no longer room to chicken out which gives me a mixed feeling. Am really very excited to get it over with and I know it’s what I want but am just a little scared which I think is normal for everyone I hope. Am only worried about recovery and what to tell people when they ask me what’s wrong with me cos in this part of the world, cosmetic surgery is considered vain. Anyway, I don’t really care much about what they will say cos it’s my body and my choice. I remember sharing it with some friends indirectly and they all frowned at it so no telling anyone. Even my husband is not jumping for it cos he thinks am good like this and that my diastasis is not a big deal that I can’t live with. He is just scared about the surgery and what the outcome will be cos he has heard so much about botched stories.Well all in all, am ready to do this. I believe am in good hands with my doctor. ????Updated on 29 Aug 2018:
Updated on 31 Aug 2018:
I can’t really explain how am feeling now cos am anxious, scared and excited all at the same time. My surgery was supposed to be on 6th September but my PS suggested Tuesday which is 4th. At first I was shocked, then I panicked but some how I am happy cos I want to really get it over with cos I have been reading a lot of reviews , some are fascinating and some scary so I want to do it and stop worrying about the downside. I asked my PS is umbilical float could work for me and he said yes but now I want to settle for the vertical incision he first recommended. I read a review about someone not happy with her float and I have decided to follow my doctor’s approach cos I believe strongly that he knows best and will make the best decision. I also expressed my fears about the pain after and he told me it will be controllable which is a great relief for me. Anyway am ready to do this despite my emotional roller coaster.????Updated on 3 Sep 2018:
Today was supposed to be my day of relief from all my nervousness but lol and behold, it won’t be happening. I had a horrible day yesterday, we were forcefully evicted from our work place cos the place was sold to another person unknown to the original owner. This was done by his daughter. Where I live, anything goes especially if you are connected to the powers that be. No one questions you cos you can bully and intimidate people and get away with it. That is exactly what the new owners did, no notice of any sort and we truly can’t do anything about it cos the law is definitely on their side os they are the rich and powerful and being a foreigner here make it even worse for people like us. Any way I told my PS to cancel for today to reschedule me when I have sorted myself cos all my stuff is in a so disorganized state. I need to put things in other cos my staff can’t handle the situation alone. I hope my new date will be soon cos my PS will be traveling and I need him to have time to run checks on me before he travels ????
Am really traumatized from yesterday and not being able to get my surgery done today. I hardly slept last night.Updated on 4 Sep 2018:
Yesterday was rough but today was much better and the most exciting part is that my new date is this Thursday 6/9/2018. I would have been over the anxiety of my procedure by now but it’s ok. My PS told me that I can leave the same day if I come in early and I wouldn’t mind that cos our plan (I and my husband) was for the kids to spend the night at home with the nanny and she is new so it will really be awesome ???????? if I can go home same day not minding that I paid for a night. Am really excited and nervous but I have faith in God and my PSUpdated on 5 Sep 2018:
Right now, the reality has set in and am a little jittery. It has been a very long day for me cos am so not settled. My mind has been filled with a lot of thought both good and back but more of good. My husband is even more scared but we talked it over. I had to call up my friend who was worked on by Dr Andrew Hodges years back and she is very happy with her results. She told me not to panic and surprisingly I wasn’t scared until today but I guess it’s the nerves getting to me. I was thinking about a movie I watch years back called AWAKE, the man had a heart surgery and felt all the pain cos he was only paralyzed by the drug and not asleep so I dreamt I had similar surgery ????. I woke up this morning so scared. Well anyway, in the next 24 hours, it will be over and with good result. I know my PS won’t fail me. I will give you all my updates.Updated on 5 Sep 2018:
I have arrived at the hospital, did my blood work and now waiting in the room till my PS comes for me. I arrived later than I was supposed to. Am so scared right but I have prayed to God for his protection. I don’t remember being this scared when I had my appendix removed but right now, am freaking out, I guess cos I now have people am responsible for( kids and husband) kids are 13, 11 and 9 years in age. Wish me luck guys. And I will update you when I wake up from surgery that’s if I have the strength to type. Good luck to anyone having their surgery today. God’s speed to us all.Updated on 6 Sep 2018:
Surgery went very well and my cut was so thin from what I saw yesterday and no pain around it. My major area of pain is where the muscle was repaired and my back and also I have this tightness like am wearing a corset and I find it hard to breathe properly but am so happy cos the sight of my tummy look awesome. I haven’t slept much cos I have been drifting in and out of sleep. Thanks to my husband who has been rallying around me since after the surgery though we had a big argument about the fat transfer so I ended not doing it. It was my fault cos I didn’t tell him. He has never supported me on the breast enlargement so I thought I could get away with it????. He has always said he likes my boobs like that so for peace to rain, I had to scratch that one off. But am truly happy with my result so far. I will send pictures later. By the way I forgot to tell you how scared I was the whole of yesterday especially when I entered the theater. Seeing all the gadgets phew I thought I will pass out but the team were so great. As they were talking with me, I didn’t even know when I was knocked out. And I was so happy when I woke up cos I was so scared of dying????.
Thanks Doctor Andrew for being such a great Doctor. I will definitely recommend you to anyone who wants to do a plastic surgery. ????????Updated on 6 Sep 2018:
Still in pain though very mild but I struggle to breath cos of the tightness Updated on 7 Sep 2018:
I had good appetite after I came through from the theater by I was advised by the nurse to go light so I was on tea then lots of milk. Felt a little nauseous at first but it subsidized after. Then coughed a little too but everything has settled. I got pictures my PS took immediately after the surgery. Updated on 9 Sep 2018:
This is my 3rd day after surgery and I am so happy I did it. No regrets. Yesterday was good though I had lot of discomfort and pain but the pain was manageable I promise is that was my major concern before surgery. DR ANDREW HODGES is the best plastic surgeon. He performed a drain-less TT and I am not swelling. Which m happy with an I pray it continues that way. He advised me not to buy a recliner and am not regretting it cos m comfortable on my bed. I sleep with 3 pillows below my feet and 3 under my upper body and a neck roll pillow. I have no problem sleeping on my back cos am a side and back sleeper.
My appetite is great although am not doing carbs yet cos I don’t want to have trouble with bowel movement. Am eating lots of fruits and protein and I drink lots of fluid which makes me pee a lot and I get to move out of bed often which almost landed me in trouble this morning cos I was so pressed that I needed to pee and in the process of leaving the bed, I exerted pressure on my stomach muscles which was so painful but I took my pain killers which helped. I had a bowel movement yesterday which was awesome with my meds, all thanks to the fruits and fluids. Anyway, so far so good, am great. I only feel time is moving sooooo slow. Am used to being up nd about. This bed business is driving me nuts. Am trying to watch TV, listen to my kids stories that they have told over and over. My husband gets to stay home with me for 2 weeks which hasn’t happened in a long time cos he works outside the country. It’s been a great bonding for us, a lot to talk about. Well bye for now. Will post pictures next Friday when I see my PS cos my incision is covered with dressing. To avoid infection. Updated on 10 Sep 2018:
Hi everyone. I hope you are all doing great? I wanted to give a.m. update on how my day for is going. It’s been a boring, tiring and stressful day for me not because am in pain. No pain at all but my upper abs was stressing me and my back was hurting from hunching over. The muscle that was repaired from my Diastasis Recti was just stiff, I felt I needed to stretch to relief myself from the tension so I had to walk around more today to reduce the tension cos it helped. When I sit or lay down, it gets so tight but when I stand or move it relaxes. Then my other stress today was dealing with my compression garments. I had to change into 4 different ones cos I thought that was what was making me restless until I realized it was the muscle pulling and because I still have no feelings there cos of numbness, it took me forever to realize my problem. On a lighter note, I had no pain today so didn’t take any pain killers and I had another normal bowel movement. I can stand upright now after I consulted with my PS though not straight but much better compared to my 45 degree position from fear of opening my incision. Am wishing the days will go by so fast so that Friday will come cos that’s when I see my PS hoping he will remove my dressing cos the nurse covered more than half of my tummy and it’s so uncomfortable together with my numbness which makes is so weird and irritating. Nothing seems to interest me. I was hoping to watch lots of TV and read books but no way, all am thinking about is this dressing coming off. I haven’t been able to have a proper bath but just sponge cleaning which is so annoying cos I don’t feel fresh. Sleeping at night has been good but I wake up 2 to 3 times to pee cos i drink a lot which I like. So far, I haven’t felt swollen or maybe I don’t know what being swollen feels like but am very flat so far from what I see. Anyway, am happy with myself and my PS. He is awesome ????. I gaining my strength back. Alright cheers for now and I will send pictures later to see if there is any swelling but I pray it’s not there cos I feel good apart from discomfort.Updated on 11 Sep 2018:
Hi everyone. Today was much better. I slept well and I was able to move around more. I had lots of tightness today but I think it’s cos I ate yoghurt cos I get bloated whenever I do eat it but hot drinks helped. Had a BM which seems not to be an issue and a so thankful to God. I have this burning sensation around my incision and I hope it’s normal. So far so good am feeling better though I move like a snail ????. It feels like my legs are attached to my stomach (kidding). I also noticed that when I take of my binder while standing, it feels my stomach will fall out.let me add pictures I took today Updated on 12 Sep 2018:
Hello real self sisters. How are you all doing? Day 6 I will say was very good so far cos there is no pain at all. I tried to walk upright a little more but my abs muscles are so tight. It was easier when I woke up, my steps improved and I was able to move around the house comfortably but after few hours, all the muscles tightened up and I was doubled up and my steps went back to snailing ????. The more effort I made to straighten, it got worse. I had to lay down for some good our before it relaxed a little but till right. I felt itching and burning sensation on my incision and BB but it subsided. I get to see my PS on Friday. Hopefully movement will get better. I might be needing that muscle relaxer. Alright everyone cheers and good luck to everyone going in for surgery tomorrow.Updated on 13 Sep 2018:
My period started today and it was so stressful and annoying cos it gave me so much cramps and waist pain. I was praying it delays till after my dressing was removed. It explained all my cramps yesterday cos it usually starts a day to my period. Anyway that basically it. I feel better in terms of strength coming back but I am so bored I feel like counting my hair strands. My dressing is all I think about is I need it removed. The nurse placed it so high and it restricts me from standing upright cos it pulls my skin when I try and I don’t want to touch it to avoid any excuse for infection. I had a peep on my scar from the part that came off and it looks great. My son took a picture for me. I will share better pictures tomorrowUpdated on 14 Sep 2018:
I saw my incision today an I was pretty scared cos it gave me a fright a bit. It looked weird seeing the cut but my doctor said it was healing nicely. And he said I can now sleep on my side but I doubt that cos it was so uncomfortable when I tried it. I have a vertical incision cos I didn’t have enough lose skin and he needed to place the incision low which I like cos I hate the high ones I see. Today, there was no pain at all and I improved on my posture while standing and walking. I feel I have fluid around my belly button but am not sure cos I noticed some wobbly movement when I got home. I will call my PS tomorrow to tell him. Let me post my scary pictures of my abs. He said it’s very fine though and healing very well. The black line next to my belly button is from the tightness of the removed dressing Updated on 18 Sep 2018:
So today is my 12th day after surgery and I feel am almost back to myself energy wise. I work up feeling strong and motivated. I saw my PS last Friday so hen I got home, I felt I had fluid below my B.B. but I wasn’t so sure if my mind was playing tricks on me. Later that night, I was so uncomfortable and restless so I took a closer look and I was indeed right so I made a video around 1am cos I couldn’t sleep then I sent it to my ps and on top of that, I was struggling to breathe so I thought I had a blood clot my I spoke to my ps and he told me it was nothing of such but I could go and see a physician close to me cos the hospital is far from me and also he wasn’t in. I quickly went to a hospital to be on a safe side. Had an X-ray of my chest and did some blood work to check my oxygen and carbon dioxide level and my results came out fine which was a relief. The breathing problem was as a result of my compression holding to tight and pushing the fluid which made it hard to breathe and hurts my back too. So first thing Monday morning I went and the fluid was drained and it measured 60cc. Right there in the hospital, I tucked myself into another firmer compression garment to avoid or reduce another fluid buildup and I am not going to remove it till Friday when I see my ps. It was really uncomfortable yesterday but right now, it feels comfortable. But incision is looking great and I feel great too. Am more upright walking but when I move a lot, my abdominal muscles tightens and I find myself hunching over. Sorry for such a long post. Good luck to anyone have surgery and quick recovery to those who have had.Updated on 18 Sep 2018:
Updated on 21 Sep 2018:
Hello RealSelf sisters. How are you all doing? I had an appointment with my PS today and he told me everything was healing nicely and there is no more fluid. I was so happy to hear that cos the fluid thing was not funny at all. My incision looks great apart from the point of my vertical T which hasn’t closed fully but it’s just a facial wound which wont take long to close. The only thing I am not happy about is my belly button position cos it’s not in the middle. It was a little tilted to the side but am being hopeful test it will balance as the skin loosens up. Otherwise, am very fine now, I can now walk upright. Am about 95% upright. My energy is back to what it is. I have itchy below my incision. I can now sleep on my side comfortably but my abs muscles go crazy at night but there is not pain. It actually feels like there is a baby moving in my tummy. I will post some pictures later cos I couldn’t take any at the hospital cos I wasn’t so excited about my belly button. Cheers to you all. And enjoy the weekend m. Xoxo.Updated on 22 Sep 2018:
Girls, now I know what swell hell is. It’s crazy cos it feels like you’re about to pop open. I noticed it today cos I went out with my son and I exacted myself so much trying to keep up with activities and now am regretting why but am glad my son had a great time. Right now am wearing a spanx and a binder. Updated on 27 Sep 2018:
I can’t believe I made it to 3 weeks cos days felt to be moving so slow but yes I made it and things the really turning around for good. I resumed work on Monday and it wasn’t easy cos by midday I was so exhausted so I had to look for a corner to take a short nap, luckily am self employed. Tuesday and Wednesday was same story . I set out in the morning upright but but midday am hunched over then by 4pm when am leaving work, am practically bent over. Today was a different day altogether, I got to work in great spirit and left same way. No problem at all but as soon as I got home, I went straight to bed for an hour nap. I have no pain but just muscle tightness but I still force myself to stand upright though I get scared sometimes of opening my stitches cos I skin is tight but I know it not happen, it’s just my mind playing tricks on me. Am suffering from itching around and along my incision line so I just rub on it slightly and it helps ease it. Am really happy with my results though am still swollen but I see a bright future. My PS is great. Am happy it’s his work. An looking forward to wearing my fitting dresses without worrying about any bulge. I will post again soon. Updated on 1 Oct 2018:
Am so excited I made it this far without any major issues. Am looking for to making it to six weeks but it still far ahead but I will get there. Nothing much has happened, am just going through my days as usual but the only difference is that my energy level is very good now. I woke up at night to pee and I was so upright but as my day progressed, I was a little hunched over cos my abs muscles became so tight and I had swelling too. Itching still continues but am trying to cope with it. My PS said I can leave my incision open now but I told him I preferred to cover with a steril strip till 5 week or when when the little opening on my vertical T closes which might be by this weekend cos is almost closed, it’s just left with a very tiny wound to heal. Then main reason am covering the rest of my incision is cos my pant makes it uncomfortable and I feel it might scratch my incision. Any way by end of this week, I might remove the sterile strip and leave it open.Updated on 5 Oct 2018:
Hello everyone.hope you all are doing great cos I am. Everything is going sooo smoothly now. I feel much better and my incision is healing so well. Swelling is improving too. Am I happy with my procedure, yes. But I hope it gets even better when the swelling is gone. The only challenge I have is my compression garment squeezing me. It presses on my belly button and my vertical incision so I decided to place sterile strip on it to see if it can hold it apart. But am planning on buying a new garment cos I don’t want this one ruining my results. My incision is dark but I know it will lighten cos where I had appendix before turned to my skin color and I haven’t started scar treatment yet. Truly, the scar is the least of my worry, being flat is my ultimate goal cos my incision is well covered by my undies. And another challenge is still itching above my pubic region but I just try not to scratch it but rather massage it lightly. Happy healing all real self sisters.Updated on 12 Oct 2018:
Another mile stone for me and am really excited for the journey so far. It seemed it will never come but am here now. Everything has been great. A lot of progress made. I feel very ok. No more feeling of exhaustion and fatigue. I still hunch over towards the end of the day or when standing up after sitting for long. Swelling is still there but no so bad. My upper abs muscles tends to tighten or bunch together when I overstretch myself. My inly concern is where I have my vertical incision cos it a little pressed in but I feel it might be from swelling and compression garment. My horizontal incision is very low that my under pant covers it well. My incision is dark but I know it will lighten up with time. Here are some pictures.Updated on 21 Oct 2018:
So I made it to 6 weeks and am thankful to God for my healing so far. Things was going well till my 5th week when I noticed my incision opening a little which freaked me out so much but I made up my mind to stay positive and face it head on so I bought an antibiotic ointment that I used on it and also covered it with small cotton wool to avoid being scratched by my pant and after one week, it closed up and am so so relieved. Another thing I have noticed is that I have 2 line crease on my tummy, one on my vertical T incision and another close to my belly button. Again I have decided to be calm as healing is still going on and I will also address my concerns with my PS to see how best he can take care of my problems. Right now he is out of the country so till he returns, I will try to be cool. My belly button is still off center. Swelling is still a thing for me but am coping. This journey is not for the faint hearted, it requires a lot of emotional and psychological strength. Am hoping for the best at the end of this journey. I attached some pictures.Updated on 26 Oct 2018:
Hello my real self family, how are you all doing. Am still amazed about the fact that I got the surgery done. I want to thank my doctor Andrew Hodges for doing a great job on me and I will definitely recommend him to whom ever is interested getting work done. I have every reason to be happy and grateful cos my stomach is now flat and I see good definition on my waistline. Am still recovering so I know things will continue to get better but even if it doesn’t, minor touch up can be done to fit things up. My healing has been going well though I have some small opening which I suspect was spitting sutures but it’s all healed now. I still swell at the end of day but am not really worried cos it’s part of recovery. My only worry is my belly button and vertical incision which has a crease but am still hopeful or good outcome. Getting in and out of my car is really a big hassle cos my car is low inside and also turning around in bed is not so easy but I try. Another thing that am worried about is my body long to stretch but I really resist it to I don’t want to compromise on my results but I guess m just being paranoid. Anyway, am happy. Here are some pictures m.Updated on 11 Nov 2018:
Am doing great so far but am just worried about my crease between my belly button and my vertical scar. Am still hoping it gets better but am truly happy I got this surgery done cos am flatter. I still have some swelling left and some pain left but it’s getting better cos sneezing is no longer scary. My right side above my incision is more swollen than the left and it’s hard above and along my incision so am hoping when it softens, it will be flatter. Am using Mederma cream on my scar and it seems to help lighten the Dark pigmentation around my Incision and also my vertical incision which was depressed is raised. I got a new faja from Ann chery which really helps with the swelling.Updated on 1 Dec 2018:
It’s always exciting crossing over to a new week. So far so good, am happy with my results and everything is going great.having this procedure is the best thing I have done for myself. Am no longer scared of going under the knife ????.
On another note, my stomach still feels a little soar and uncomfortable when I round or massage it but I know healing is still going on. If I fo without my compression for few hours, I find myself bending over and my mid section feels like it will fall out. I have started exercising but not crunches or any abdominal exercises yet. Here are some pictures Updated on 1 Jan 2019:
Hello Everyone, this is my fourth month for surgery. Hope your year took off well? It’s been awhile since I updated although it was on purpose cos I want to be giving monthly updates.
I am happy with my procedure for sure and I have no regrets. I will do it again if need be but anyway there is no need for another tummy tuck cos my doctor fixed me up real good. I still feel some discomfort and irritation when I rub on my tummy and my lower belly is still numb but I know it’s normal so am not worried. I was having big itching problem on my incision line but I didn’t realize it was on the incision cos of the numbness. I was always scratching it thinking it was on the skin below it until I realized the middle of my incision scar was a little raised so I started using scar away silicone sheet during day and a mix of vitamin A and E oil and the itching has stopped. Am now praying for the raised skin to settle. I have stopped wearing my compression garments for over 2 weeks now and I feel ok though I have discomfort sometimes but it’s rare. My right lower belly is slightly higher than the left so I spoke to my PS about it and he thinks its a minor correction required but since I want to do my fat transfer to the breast, he said the lipo will correct the unevenness. I want my waist contoured to give me a defined and smaller wait and it will give me a Better hip and butt definition cos am so very okay with my size. Am not a fan of big Booty. So I will be starting another review soon on dat transfer cos I need to go up on size.