Mrs_H_mommy_of_2

Anxious For a Flat Belly - Charleston, SC

I'm March 29th too!!

Hi everyone! I have been viewing the comments and post on real self for about 1 1/2 years now. And looking at every ones questions and concerns really does help me know that it's normal to worry. I have scheduled my tt, mr, and lipo for Mar. 29! So excited, I lost 45 lbs to have this done. I'm not nervous about the procedure... YET. I'm that person who panics a few hours before lol. But my husband is nervous. He said he have never taken care of anyone like that before. I told him to keep our very hyper and active 3 years old son from my belly and we should be fine. lol Plus we have a 10 years old daughter, she'll be able to help him with everything as well. It's good to see that I'm sharing recovery time with some of you. And congratulations to everyone! I know that we've been waiting on this for awhile.

Cindi I felt the same way when I thought about my daughter, she's nine and very thin, yet she thinks she'll get "fat if she eats certain foods. I tell her she beautiful as she is and that she doesn't have to worry about gaining weight ever. As a supportive and loving mother, we want our children to be proud of their selves and have healthy self-esteems, but we have to be confident that we're there for when they need us and that won't change for anything. I do believe as well that when we're feeling confident about ourselves and that our self-esteem is high, we can do much more for our children. We can tell them that we're fine with the way we look, but children knows better... especially little girls, b/c when we think their not looking at us, as we poke and grab @ those bellies and handles, they're right there...observing mommy. So, good for you and all women who's looking for comfort within their selves, and I say go for it! Good luck with everything!!