Cherry Lane

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Cherry Lane

Location: Virginia
Joined: 25 Nov 2009
Activity: 100 posts

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  • Posted to Fraxel Ruined my Skin, Should Be Banned by FDA on 28 Jan 2013

    I am extremely bitter about this issue as it took the last two years of my daughters life away. she was doing all she could to find a way to fix her face. Finally she just went to bed and never came out of her room again. 39 years of age and homebound the last 2. Sue ...yes I would love to. But it won't bring her back.......IF THOUGH it saved ONE person from getting there face damaged.I would do it in a heart beat! If I can help anyone in anyway feel free to contact me. This needs to end!!!
  • Posted to How long did your Fraxel side effects last? on 30 May 2012

    So sorry for the results so many people are having with Fraxel. I want to say Thank you for being honest with your posts and letting others know that this procedure does not ALWAYS work for the better. Obviously my Daughter Angela Walker was burned and scarred and lost the form of her face (fat loss) for two years she cried, prayed, beat herself up mentally for what she felt was her own self destruction. I feel your pain when you say you are depressed and don't want anyone to see you. She completely isolated herself from friends and family for two years.One day she went to her bedroom and would not leave it...... stopped eating and would not let ANYONE see her. She would pretend to be asleep if you entered the room or put the covers over her head. She kept the lights and the sun out of her room and remained in a dark room. Some days I would go to her house and go up to her room and just lay beside her and cry with her. So when I see or hear of another person damaged from these machines I just feel the pain of when she was hurting. The sad part is that she thought it had worked for her also, but as tme progressed her face continued to deteriate. My sweet Daughter spent thousands of dollars and hours researching and going to Drs. to see what could be done. The Doctors were totally perplexed and said they had no idea of what to do for her. They blew her off and made her feel like a quack. She would come home crying and say Mom, they think I am overreacting and that I am a kook. The Doctor that did this to her face would not even see her. She followed all Doctors orders and bought all the meds creams ,ointments, lotions, derma rollers, facial stimulation mask. She went to the end of earth to try and repair her face. Finally she gave up..... well she didn't give up. On October 16,2009 on a Friday evening she died. 39 years young and gone. Was it the Fraxel ? The autopsy reads aneurysm, but in my opinion I think the stress and the pain of her lonely isolation killed her LONG before the aneurysm. I will ALWAYS believe Fraxel and her death are somehow related. She was a perfect healthy 36/37 year old when she had this procedure done. She had a very active social life, had done some modeling when she was younger......stayed involved in her nephews ( who she was raising after his Mother passed away with cancer) soccer and school activities. Loved playing polo and horses. Lived a clean life...just a good loving young woman and my best friend. So as I post this I can only hope that when one reads this they will have a moment of doubt about HOW IMPORTANT is this procedure to you? Is it worth the RISK? Are you willing to not only put yourself through the torment of WHAT IF but also your family. Her Mother, Father, Son (nephew) Fiancee, Brother and many cherished friends walked this path with her and I must say it was the worst two years of my life. Mothers are suppose to take care of there children, fix there hurts and when you watch them suffer and you are helpless to help them, this becomes your HELL also. Life is about your soul and character and I just cringe at the thought that ANYONE will sacrifice quality life for a quick fix procedure. For the ones damaged please KNOW your feelings are validated as I KNOW what you feel and I will PRAY this madness stops before more are injured!
    Sincerely,
    Cherry Lane
  • Posted to Adverse Effects Fraxel Repair on 13 May 2012

    Happy Mothers Day to Mothers on the Board...... May your day be Blessed with Happiness!
  • Posted to Adverse Effects Fraxel Repair on 11 May 2012

    Thanks Dazed...... I try to stay in shape and think young. Two Grandchildren to raise I have to stay young... they leave me no choice!! LOL
  • Posted to Adverse Effects Fraxel Repair on 23 Apr 2012

    Thank you for the advice... I will check out the brest reconstruction community...... always nice to hear new stories and share experiences. At I may add at 61 this is quite the experience... so glad I have humor. Kudos for your Mom finishing her treatment..... may her health continue to improve. I waited my 5 years clear before moving on to reconstruct. 4 weeks out and still walking into things !! LOL. have a great evening and thanks for the advice...... love to learn and encourage! Cherry lane

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