I'm not trying to be mean. I just was a professional model and know a lot about this kind of thing and do some image consulting. Your hair is probably the same as it was in high school. It's long and looks thick but it just hangs there and doesn't do much for you but make you look like a teenager who doesn't know better. A hairstyle that frames your face with some highlights and no one would know you--seriously. I know long hair is easy when you're a new mom because you can just put it up out of the way but with the correct style for your face you'd be model pretty. I know what I'm talking about. Most image consultants will not charge much if anything for a quick consult, go see one. It could save you a fortune on a PS and change your whole self image. Seriously. If you'd like to take this discusion with me private, my email address is *******@****.com and I'll share my phone number there if you'd like to talk a bit.