I have had my tum tuck , tum muscle repair and Lipo on my flanks. I'm really worried that having wanted this for twenty years and only being financially able to now that my expectation are too high. I don't overly exercise but just wanted rid of my unsightly pouch and overhanging skin. I want a flat stomach naked and I want to know will I. I have lots of swelling now obviously but just can't imagine my tummy ever being flat. Will it be?