Trust me - men just DON'T get it. I've been with my husband 31 years and married 25 this November. After my TT, he let the dishes pile up in the sink and kept saying he'd get to it ... it drove me crazy because I had NO energy and kept asking him to straighten up (I'm a bit of a neat freak anyway) ... luckily I had all his work clothes ready for the week and my son's (13 y/o) clothes also. My husband does cook and is a very good cook (better than me), so I didn't have to worry about that. But now he gets all I do. I lay their clothes out every day, make their lunches, run all the errands and shop ... EVERYTHING ... and when he gets home at the evening he rests and watches tv ... I've told him for years, my work does not end ... I'm always doing something at every hour of the day and night. You need to take car of YOU and don't worry about him - he needs to pick up the weight while you heal, and you need to remind him, they are his kids too. You deserve this so do NOT feel guilty!! :) Sorry, but I hate when men don't appreciate all we do for them!
Thanks! I never got stretch marks-but my stomach sure did s-t-r-e-t-c-h, then didn't tighten up again, mainly after the 2nd and 3rd kids!! What city did you live in when you were in MD?
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