Thanks Sarah - My husband actually asked to have a talk with me this morning before I had a chance to tell him that I wanted to talk with him. He told me that he cant make the efforts anymore to be supportive of a surgery that he has always been 100% against becasue he feels it is dangerous, not medically necessary, expensive, and results are not guaranteed to make me happy. So I'm right back to where I was weeks ago. My 9 year old son doesnt want me to do it either. Of course. So, I'm back to having no support at home and basically feeling like I'm being a selfish person if I do the surgery because I have children to think about and the money could be spent on more practical things. So, I think am really going to have to just forget it for good this time. I cant keep being put through this emotional roller coaster. I will have to continue to live with a nose I hate in order to make everyone else in my family happy, and I have to pretend that I changed my mind and dont want a nose job anymore and be happy about it, to spare my husband's feelings and not allow him to feel like he is a jerk and a bad husband for not supporting me in doing what I want to do to. This is the position I have been put in, if i want to keep things running smoothly at home with my husband. It just kills me to see almost everyone else on this website having great results that they love and know that I cant enjoy that too. This sucks.
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