Btw I just wanted to add that I think your husband not being supportive is more of the reason you are not happy right now...my husband is supportive 100% and still I had regrets so I can only imagine how much harder recovery would be without him!! Hang in there only you can help your self...you'll be fine and all this will be a faint memory soon!
Hi Runner I've been wanting to post on your story for a few days but haven't found the words of what it is I wanted to share with you....but I totally understand your frustration! I have regretted my surgery many time but only to myself haven't told anyone...I don't want to start a fight with my husband or family and how I spend all this money and still not happy! Lol but anyways I too have looked in the mirror and thought the skin was not that bad...but as days go by I'm stating to see better results...I'm staring to love my self again. I went to the gym yesterday and just walked at a super slow pace but it reminded me of why I did it! My incision is starting to fade a little and I'm only at three weeks...so I'm trying to stay positive and remember the ultimate goal. I also have three little kiddos all under five so I was a super active and busy mommy this surgery has slowed me down sooo much and depresses me on how I can't do anything with them...but I have to stay positive for them! I'm their rock and who they look up to so I can not let them down! This HAS to be worth it cause all this time I'm unable to carry them and cuddle them or even just as simply as bathe them HAS to be worth it!!!! Like you said you worked hard for everything you have and this is just something else you HAVE to work had for! I also lost 90lbs after my babies so I totally get on how hard and committed you have to be to accomplish that! Thumbs up to you!! I think the hardest part was looking in the mirror and not seeing instant results...I'm my head I knew it would be a slow healing process but after the surgery my eyes started to deceive me and all the pain made me forget that...but time is making me love myself again. Im great full I kept it in and avoided problems with my hubby cause now I see a small light at the end of this dark tunnel! Hang in there! Anyways I hope these words help a little but remember there is a target a goal and you must stay strong to get there!...just like a marathon! ;)
Thank you for posting your up date and pics! You look amazing!! It's a real encouraging and totally remind me that there is a light at the end of this tunnel! :)
Omg! I'm so nervous also!! I go in tomorrow at 6:30 am excited but very anxious...and SCARED! But I have tons of faith on my PS that I know all will be ok...good luck tomorrow...and if you pray send a little prayer my way... ;)
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