Kansascurious123

Ugh

Thanks ladies its nice to know I'm not alone..I sometimes think either my husband is an ass or he is the one with the vagina lol

Okay ladies has anyone else's husband not reacted the way they would have hoped? The first week was hard I thought even with all the drains and bruises the fact I didn't have this hanging apron would have gotten some kind of reaction from him, so the next week I asked he said as I quote " you want me to give you compliments on your time frame and I will say them on mine, he said that with the drains and bruises to him I don't look very good and that I, sure I'm time things will look better" In my head and heart I wanted to take a pillow and shove it over his dumb ass head. I'm now 24 days and and of course have been cleared for hanky panky but have no desire, his lack of affection and just his not what I expected reaction has put me in the I'm never giving him sex again mode...is his behavior normal is it because men are so visual..am I alone?

Anyone's boobs drop At different times? My right seems to have dropped my left is just a little harder and higher ps says not to worry... Humm I'm 3 weeks out

I had my 3 week post op on Wednesday and was told lifting restrictions were now at 20 pounds I will see him again in 4 weeks and by then ill be 7 weeks and should have no restrictions, his recommendations were as this with the 20 pounds lifting my child whose 20 pounds should be at my distraction meaning into the car and out and into and out of the crib to bed at my knees and take it slow.. By no means was he suggesting for me to go to the gym and start lighting weights or just carrying out my kid just because.. I think your ps like mine probably meant that you are cleared to lift but you should do it as minimal as possible and with the most care possible.,:-)

Definitely, I can see how much of a difference from before and after its justdo hard to grasp that I can have swollen spots for months and months.. It took me nine months to get up the nerve I was rescheduled for surgery a week because of a cold and now I just want to be normal to wear what I want without binders, to go running again, to lift my kids again, to have sex again... I'm sure I'm sounding like a pitty party cause my recovery has been pretty easy 2 days of pain meds and all good from there had help for three whole weeks with kids so why am I acting like such a brat? I mean I have such an improvement it's only supposed to get better as the swelling goes down.. Did I expect a miracle and for me to come out if this perfect...