Hi sweetheart, I feel so close to your story. What has happened to you is exactly what keeps me away from deciding to go under the knife. I really hope one day soon you will feel great about your body again, about all of it, I know you will feel great with what you can do with your body because you can and do push it a lot, I'm the same and giving it up would be very hard. Best. Ah, one thing, on men, they don't care... they are so glad they are bedding you that they will believe whatever you tell them, so if you tell them it was your c-section they will go for it and find it endearing...
When you say it will change your shape, do you mean the scar? I know i don't like my extra skin and wrinkly belly button but (sorry to say this) i look fantastic otherwise and dressed and not bending over not bad at all so changing my shape, or my physical condition for the worse just to look better in a bikini (i'm not sure about naked with the scar).... I'm so torn about this.
Very impressed and very happy for you. And i have to say your belly button looks awesome (it's one of my biggest worries because they tend to look "done"). And your scar is looking great to. Lots of love.
I really hope you did go back to school or are at least planning to go shortly. You deserve it sweetie. Play the pity card, tell them about your abdominal separation and how you needed to fix it to avoid a hernia and allow you to pursue your athleticism in the future without danger. And you know what? Once the boys see your boobs, knowing them, they will not notice anything else. Lots of love b
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