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  • Posted to Fat Transfer to Breast...Very Nervous but Mind is Made Up! - Florida on 30 Nov 2012

    wow fattransfergirl. thank you for saying that i need a therapist. that was very hurtful. I was only trying to spare someone else the physical and mental pain and suffering which i am experiencing now. condescending? no. maybe i care more than others do. A condescending person is someone who would judge u for being shallow for having breast implants and preach about beauty being from inside and all that. I am speaking out of my own personal experience and other friends who suffered different complications. I have the implants inside me now. they look great underneath clothes. but they are making me sick and miserable. i have CC too and some rippling and it hurts when i try to hug my friends and family. I hate implants and i always will do my best to help women avoid them and look for alternatives to achieve what they're looking for. I did my research too when i was your age thought i had it all figured out, when u experience the side effects yourself trust me its a whole different thing. i loved my body too before the implants, i thought i'll be more proportionate with one size bigger, because i'm very tall and very skinny, but i was so wrong. i love everything about myself expect my implants so no i don't have confidence issues. you don't know me to judge me. well good luck with it. I hope you will be happy with whatever decision you make.
  • Posted to Fat Transfer to Breast...Very Nervous but Mind is Made Up! - Florida on 27 Nov 2012

    scappy37 stop encouraging a teenager to stick plastic bags into her chest! she doesn't need it. she's gorgeous. i did when i was her age and it was the biggest mistake of my life. I wish i had someone to tell me i was going to face complications. there is a very high chance she will eventually have complications. and very rare cases people will not have complications. its a very glamorized surgery and they make it look simple. I live in the middle east, and i will have to travel to the States to be explanted by surgeon Edward Melmed who's very famous for explanting women. I will spend a fortune just to be able to go back to the way my breasts were before. that's all i wish for. Only women with breast cancer should have implants. they were made for them in the first place.
  • Posted to Fat Transfer to Breast...Very Nervous but Mind is Made Up! - Florida on 16 Nov 2012

    Hey FatTransferGirl, please please please don't get breasts implants! I had breast implants in 2007, i was 20 at the time and i was very self conscious and insecure about my body. i took the procedure for granted. for a couple of years I loved the breasts and got compliments from everyone. they looked kinda natural. i was getting a lot more attention from men and i felt great about my body. but now i'm suffering from capsular contracture in my right breast. and its horrible. it looks deformed and the thing is my doctor didn't warn me from complications and i thought they were rare. but they happen to all women with breast implants! all women eventually suffer from a complication: leaking, capsular contracture, bottoming out..etc... now i don't make my boyfriend touch them because they feel like so disgusting. like a hard plastic bag with a hole in it. i'm afraid to feel them. thing is right now i'm considering removing my implants or replacing them, i can't stand the idea of opening up my chest with a knife again. and i'm so scared that i'll be left with sagging skin and won't be able to go back to my once beautiful small perky boobs. and i'm afraid to do the fat transfer because i don't want to end up with lumps in my breasts. i'm scared of replacing the implants because i don't want to ruin my breast tissue more than i already did. i noticed stretch marks on my breasts and i guess that means i lost elasticity and natural breast tissue. its such a glamorized surgery and plastic surgeons make it sound so easy. but its not. its a lifetime commitment! if i get a replacement that means that i will never be able to go natural again. and will have to go under the knife every 10 years or so for the rest of my life. Now i believe that only women with breast cancer should get breast implants. that's the reason they were made for in the first place. It feels horrible to have a deformed foreign body under your skin. Please wait until they make more research about fat grafting and it becomes a safe procedure. Until then i think you should try other non-surgical options because you are so young and your breasts and so perky and beautiful. and the difference between your 2 breasts is very very very minimal. maybe half a cup. I hear that the BRAVA is good for minimal breast enhancement. which is all you need. http://www.realself.com/question/is-brava-breast-enhancement-system-scam (read the doctors comments). maybe you can wear it on one breast or something when you go to sleep until you get that half a cup you need on your breast. I heard its successful in producing breast tissue. try it before you consider drastic life altering surgical options. I hope you make the right decision. and please don't worry about what men think. if a man truly loves you and appreciates you he will absolutely looooove the asymmetry :) and he will think that its a very unique and beautiful physical attribute. take care and good luck! :)
  • Posted to Fat Transfer to Breast...Very Nervous but Mind is Made Up! - Florida on 16 Nov 2012

    lol. anon3253 meant that the end of the world is on the 21st dec 2012 :)
  • Posted to I Had It Done... - Egypt on 9 Oct 2011

    Rush 1116, Can you please tell me who's your surgeon? I'm urgently looking for one in Cairo. please post a reply with his name and contacts if possible. thank you.

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