**rosie**

November 11th... - Bergen County, NJ

okay so I havent read any of the other replies because I got so mad at what you said about this sister in law of yours.

Plain and simple pull her aside and you look her directly in the eyes and tell her to mind her own business. Then if she proceeds to bring up YOUR PERSONAL BUSINESS this is what you say (in front of ANYBODY who's there:

"(her name) this is something I've chosen to do, its a personal decision and I would appreciate it if you would keep your negative comments to yourself. When you brings up personal matters in front of other people it makes everybody feel very uncomfortable and honestly it doesnt make you look very good when you are so willing to my personal business on the table at public events".

Then you can add:
"You know, nobody likes a gossip. People may re-consider what they say to you. Its really not attractive..."

Then simply walk away as she picks her jaw up off the floor. :)

Im glad to hear you were able to get out of the house. I know it was weighing down on you. How's your appetite?

Even with your swelling you still look unbelieveable. I know its probably hard for you to see it but I do. I hope your starting to feel like its worth it.

Thanks Kim :)

THAT is exactly what she needs to hear!!

Seriously, I am OFFICIALLY freaked out! Questioning my decision. Please baby girl, get better soon so you can tell me it was worth it.