OK, we have made improvements, he is speaking to me and we are back to 'normal', at least until the topic comes up again,or MAYBE, he has just come to the realization/conclusion I am just going to do it regardless of his pouting... Thanks ladies for the support, and I am still very excited!! can't wait!!
still hoping for a cancellation :)
Thanks Angiemcc, he is afraid he won't be 'happy' with the results because he doesn't see a need and loves me the way I am... yadayada.. I know he loves me, well I did until he has really not spoken to me since I actually scheduled my appt... feeling love is on the condition I do what HE wants these days... it's good I will be fine, and happy to have this site to help & feel supported!! I am getting my house in order (less for him to do) and will start cooking meals to freeze soon as well... so time is good, but I am watching the calendar :P
Thanks again for the support.
LOL thanks cittycat... yes his babies... :)
however that is more a reason, in his mind anyway to stay the way I am... however I have wanted BA way before I ever met him, the TT was due to our youngest with the EMER C-section...
whatever, I have come to the conclusion that this is FOR ME... and his 'anger' stems from his fear of what is going to be later... he has heard way too many horror stories that woman leave after surgery... he doesn't get it... it's gonna be all good, and yes I have had MANY friends offer to drive me, come take care of my kids, family is around... and this website which is awesome.
Thanks again & I will
Thank you, and good luck to you too! I am ok with waiting, it does give me more time to make meals and such, I think my husbands lack of support is causing unnecessary anxiety, but I have a great group of friends that are being very supportive and therefore making up for his lacking, still doesn't take the place of my husband/best friend loving me unconditionally!!
I do wish you luck and my thoughts will be with you this week as you heal!!! :)
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Posted to Nervous but VERY Excited - Maryland on 28 Feb 2011
still hoping for a cancellation :)
Posted to Nervous but VERY Excited - Maryland on 26 Feb 2011
Thanks again for the support.
Posted to Nervous but VERY Excited - Maryland on 26 Feb 2011
however that is more a reason, in his mind anyway to stay the way I am... however I have wanted BA way before I ever met him, the TT was due to our youngest with the EMER C-section...
whatever, I have come to the conclusion that this is FOR ME... and his 'anger' stems from his fear of what is going to be later... he has heard way too many horror stories that woman leave after surgery... he doesn't get it... it's gonna be all good, and yes I have had MANY friends offer to drive me, come take care of my kids, family is around... and this website which is awesome.
Thanks again & I will
Posted to Nervous but VERY Excited - Maryland on 24 Feb 2011
I do wish you luck and my thoughts will be with you this week as you heal!!! :)