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Tummy Tuck Left with No Stretchmarks - New York

  • posted 1 year ago
  • updated 9 months ago

I did it bc I had a stomach full of stretchmarks...

I did it bc I had a stomach full of stretchmarks and at such a young age I just wanted for once go to the beach and enjoy myself! not be so insecure.

Week 1: really no pain just a lot of discomfort...

week 1: really no pain just a lot of discomfort and not being able to manage on my own. Terrified when I have to lay in bed, my BF has to make sure he lays me down very very slow otherwise I freak out. That really is my major complain. By day 3 I was off all pain meds.
week 2: back to work! drains removed HURRAH HURRAH did not hurt just freaked me out a bit seeing that tube come out (so long!) uff sitting for 8+hrs not the best feeling as when I get up I stiff up a lot and walking like a grandma in fact everyone at work is calling me granny. it is a challenge especially commuting on the subway but it is totally doable, you just have to listen to your body and make sure you don't push yourself too hard. Taking breaks in between work putting up my feet and resting my body. My mind is seriously slow though I am like in sick mode don't want to do anything in the office. At night so happy to be in bed, my body relaxed, showered and feeling all good again. At exactly 2 weeks I went out to a bar and all of a sudden my hips were moving on they're own! Yes, you read right! I danced! not crazy dancing but I danced! felt good next day no setbacks. The only discomfort is the tightness of the tummy and slowly making my body walk super straight.
week 3: I am thrilled! the tape came off and I can see how thin the line is!!! still some scabbing around the area but I will let it fall off on its own. MEDERMA + cocoa butter day and night. VERY IMP to keep your body hydrated at all times! I want to do everything in my power to heal that line and make it look as faint as possible. Following my Docs instructions to the T. He's the best. I reach out to him almost everyday I know I am a bit neurotic but he answers all my ?s. and that makes me happy and gives me peace of mind. and to wrap up week 3 I attended a gala and had to play dress up and that said for the 1st time my binder came OFF! I wore a beautiful gown and my 4" heels and I promise you everyone was raving of how amazing I looked. In fact my BF did not want to come to the party but once he saw me all done up he jumped in the shower and got ready in 5mins and came to the party with me. I drank and I danced, had the best time! Even forgot about the surgery bc it did not HURT or bother me AT ALL!!! next day I was really lazy since wanted to recover from the night before and now just a bit sore but think it was from doing laundry the next day going up and down the stairs (SO MAD bc I did not want to do laundry). but nothing dramatic to be concerned about. To sum up my 3 weeks post-op I have a bit of discomfort from sitting down for long periods of times but takes me 10 secs for my body to spring back up no longer walk hunchback swollen but nothing dramatic and feeling really good. Just counting the days when I am at 100%. will continue updating and feel free to ask me ?s. pics to follow.

I am officially 2 mos 1 week post op and couldn't...

I am officially 2 mos 1 week post op and couldn't be happier!! I am coming along GREAT - the trick to a TT is follow your surgeons to a T can't stress that enough!! I am binder free and can move around like nothing ever happened! treating my scar with mederman 2xs a day and as you can see from my latest pic I can cover my scar with certain undies... in fact my 2mos PO pic is my new bathing suit! I am still swollen but feel so flat already and everyone keeps telling me how great I look. I wear a lot of skirts to work with camisoles tucked in and my tummy is super flat. I am really looking forward to hit the 3mo mark and see less swelling but so far so good!!!

Today, 4/13/12, it has been officially 3mos since...

Today, 4/13/12, it has been officially 3mos since my TT!!!!! Can I tell you how thrilled I am. I am as excited as a bee. To sum it up:
: 0 stretchmarks
: not feeling any pain
: can sleep however I want - on tummy to my side - on my back
: I am really flat - minor swelling but only depending of my salt intake or if I do too much on that day but again very minor swelling
: tummy already gaining sensation and no longer stiff like a board
: fit into all my clothes but might need new ones because I just keep getting tinier by the sec
: found a bathing suit that covers my line completely - SO THRILLED!!!!
NOTE: on my 3mos pic you will see I have a tape on the sides of my scar, that is because I recently went to the Doctor for a 2nd surgery (OK call me CRAZY but he's a genius) and got liposuction on my back, flanks, inner thighs, and that fat was all injected right on my butt!! BOOM and let me tell you what a beautiful but he gave me! SO back to the scar - the tape is on because he revised the line as he had to close the holes where the drainage was placed. Wasn't a big hole or anything of concern, it could've healed on it's own but me wanting everything to look close to perfection I opted for him to stitch it up and he did and revised the line while he was at it and it looks even tinier than before. CANNOT wait to post pics without the tape but have to keep it on for now. The 2nd surgery was performed on 4/4/12. Feel free to ask me ?s but overall I have been healing very nice but now healing from Brazilian Butt Lift but have a few more weeks of being swollen then I will for sure be BEACH READY!!! I am really HAPPY. Dr. Shafer, I can honestly say, you have changed my life and have given me back my confidence!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well HELLO everyone!! what a journey! I will say...

well HELLO everyone!! what a journey! I will say this a million times - considering a tummy tuck don't think twice just do it! do it! do it! My gosh I am still stunned at my results... it just keeps getting better and better BUT a friendly FYI: get ready to go through swell hell!! it is a mental process more so than a recovery one I kid you not. One morning you wake up nice and flat then the next you look like you swallowed an entire basketball team. But in all reality it was not a hard recovery. I am thrilled at my results! I am 6mos post op - back at the gym full time - WHOA my 1st set of abs felt so foreign to me like I could not do it but it was all in my head! wearing normal clothes - barely every swell - now it is all about treating my scar - right now I am switching between silicone sheets and Mederma. I am posting some pics so you see results. Been to the beach all summer fit into all bathing suits of my liking but always using sunscreen to cover my scar. Hit me up if you have any questions, I will be more than happy to answer!!!
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OK I am giving this Doc 5 stars! I know u see 5 stars and u think no way, no one is perfect right? well in plastic surgery world this Doc is the best. A magician! Talented! I went in for a tummy tuck on 1/20/12 and couldn't be more pleased. My results have been amazing. Sure went through the pain and soreness but now I am at week 2 and I am jumping up and down from joy from how the line looks and how he has been there every step of the way during my recovery. No question is to silly or too urgent this Doc will always answer! I am 33, a 17YR old son, and had a lot of stretchmarks. Conclusion: 0 stretchmarks (thanks Doc!) maybe like 1 left on the hip side but hey I'd take that over the bunch I had on my stomach. And at week 2 I am healing nicely but what amazes me the most is the LINE the LINE the LINE - it is as thin as can be and again 0 stretchmarks!! I am very happy w Dr. Shafer. I can honestly say he did an amazing job!

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Liana911 12 Sep 2012
Hi TTgirl, first I want totell you that you look amazing!!! I've been researching docs in the city and my biggest concern is wether they would make a thin line and would my stomach look smooth and not stretched. I really like how you'rs look. How much is the consultation and how long did you have to wait between the consult and getting it done? Any specific advice will be greatly appreciated
BeUTeeFul Body 1 Sep 2012
Hello TTgirl, I just wanted to know how much did he charge you for everything and what is his information, like his phone number and stuff like that.
Kimmers25 (Community Manager) 16 Aug 2012

Looking good:)

BootyLicious25 15 Aug 2012
Great results you inspire me! How are you healing update please. Did you have any stretch marks above belly button?
TTgirl1 14 Aug 2012
hi everyone! just wanted to let you know I posted recent pics.
JasPink 1 Aug 2012
TTgirl1 ..thanks for the reply unfortunatly I have to wait until Jan to the TT that is when I will have the $. I cant wait to see your recent pics
TTgirl1 1 Aug 2012
@JasPink - thanks! UGH I love my TT so much! I have absolutely 0 regrets!! have to post recent pics since I even look more amazing now... it is unreal! I am 6mos post op and started working out! So I am really motivated! My doc says my tummy looks like the one of a 20yr old (smiles). Recovery from BBL what a pain in the ASS that was not in a painful sense. You get so paranoid of not wanting to loose fat graft that I personally did not sit for a full 2 weeks. I had to sit at work but used a special pillow and got up like every 15mins and for the most part just stood up! not sitting down is a challenge only in the sense that mentally we are used to sitting down, right? As long as you don't sit on that newly grafted buttocks then you should be able to hold on to the CCs injected. I was injected 400ccs on each cheek as I was looking to get a nice bubble shape not be in the next VH1 video booty popping. I love it - it's not HUGE it's not tiny and the graft did stay - I am at 3mos out and have a really nice round butt. Once you reach the 1mo mark of no sitting then you can trust that will be ur final results. Docs suggest not to sit for 2 weeks and if you do for 15min max and on the special boppy pillow!! that is the simple key to a BBL! PS: if you can do the TT before Jan I would highly recommend as you really need a good 6mos to heal and go through what I call swell hell!! so you won't be 100% ready for summer either. Even though I was all out in the sun and on vacation it is doable BUT I would say my real summer with my new body will be next year. The line would have faded no longer swell and then don't have to worry about tanning (very important not to tan your TT line). Hope this was enough info for you. oh and I highly recommend my DOC! See other pics - my tummy does not look pulled down - I have the cutest belly button - he removed all of my stretch marks even the ones on the side and the line is great! (will post recent pics soon)
JasPink 1 Aug 2012
Your forum is awsome. I plan on having a TT done in January all I can think about is how I will look next summer. I will check your doctor out because I love your results. About the brazillain butt lift, how was the recovery from that? Did you have to stay off your butt for weeks? What percent of the fat actually stayed permanantly?
babylucy88 6 Jun 2012
WOW you got some remarkable results i can't wait to get mine now lol! enjoy!! x
Kay1967 16 May 2012
Wow! What gorgeous results!
TTgirl1 15 May 2012
@babylucy88 - just posted my pictures of side views of my extended TT - see no stretchmarks!! just took those pics today - I am at almost 4mos (5 days until I reach the 4mos mark). Hope that helps!
TTgirl1 15 May 2012
@babylucy88 - thanks for the compliment! I thought it was impossible as well but while my Dr. did not give me the 100% guarantee that they could all be removed he did say with an extended TT he can get rid of most of the ones on the side and if anything they would sit on the lower side of my body BUT in the operating room guess he worked his magic and left me with 0 marks!! I couldn't be happier as my main concern was having stretchmarks that after a TT will look obviously pulled down and to top it off a scar from hip to hip - that was my biggest fear!! I will take some pics today and post. Will reply when I do so you can view my profile again. I went to the beach this weekend and cried as I was finally able to strut around in a bikini!!! And sat with everyone vs. secluded in a corner as I did in the past.
babylucy88 15 May 2012
wow you look great! how did he get the stretch mark's on the side to go? i have stretch mark's on my sides but i thought it wasn't possible to get rid of them even with a tt. can i see more pic's from the side aswell? it would be really helpful x
TTgirl1 26 Apr 2012
hi tinamati, I had deleted the pics as I was thinking of deleting my profile but I have uploaded them again. So go take a look. One thing I am amazed by my doc is that my stomach does not look pulled down and he left me w 0 stretchmarks as opposed to a lot of tummies I see that really just look pulled down and the belly buttons looking odd. I think I got really nice results. Will take a look at your profile! Let me know if you any ?s. Happy Healing!
tinamati 29 Apr 2012
WOW! your dr did a phenomenal job! YOu have a great figure too! You are so lucky! Congrats!
tinamati 25 Apr 2012
I really wanted to see your pics! I can't see them for some reason! Congrats on your great results.
TTgirl1 23 Apr 2012
I understand and know all about the wrinkle stomach, seen many and not so attractive. Well ur married and having the support of ur husband is amazing especially that ur poor belly became ugly after having beautiful children! so he is OK with that but men cannot understand that we need to feel beautiful and having our bodies change for the worst can be our biggest fears/insecurities, etc. etc. Plastic surgery has become A: so advanced and B: so trendy - everyone is doing it and it is a matter of time when everyone starts admitting to having had a nip and tuck. The pay off again is amazing but being at your desired weight is very important prior too. Stretchmarks will never go away does not matter what you do fresh or not. I even tried fraxel and every laser under the sun and moon every cream every home remedy and no luck. And the wrinkled stomach no curing that either! I worked out like an animal and that is how my stomach became a bit flatter but stretchmarks were still there :( I was so sad -- it is something you and your husband need to talk about but again it is not his body so he does not know how you feel day to day... best of luck
millywales 23 Apr 2012
thanks for your reply!
i have a burn scar on the inside of my arm/elbow from childhood that is as white as my skin, and on my wrist i got scratched by a thin bit of wire sticking out from an aviary at a zoo..yet it healed like a thin scar!!!
i'm pregnant with my third, and have angel wing shaped stretch marks around my belly button...i had no loose skin after the first really and fter the 2nd i still had 10kgs to lose to get back to my orignal weight, so i haven't seen how it looks with 10 extra kgs of fat gone...my one perfect belly button has that light crinkle above it though..so who knows what it will look like after the third comes out???
my plan is to straight away use a squeem compression girdle vest thing, to help reduce my tummy and waist, and probably use a dermaroller on my stomach too while the stretchmarks are fresh...i will try to get back to my original weight within two years so i can then look and see what i have been left with after doing all that...my hsband is totally anti plastic surgery, but i don't want that crinkly textured stomach for the rest of my life if i don't have to!
he doesn't care at all and thinks i look wonderful however, but i don't like the soft old lady feeling skin!!! :)
TTgirl1 23 Apr 2012
hi millywales, I understand ur concern 100% as that was my MAIN concern esp if I was not able to find a surgeon that could get rid of all my stretchmarks and then have to deal w having stretchmarks plus a HUGE scar! However the fact that I have a belly with 0 stretchmarks and just a scar from hip to hip is OK with me. I couldn't be happier. I am 3mos post op and my scar is healing very nice and I can easily hide underneath my clothes and can wear a bathing suit with 0 concern! The incision is very very very thing (notice how I wrote thin 3xs) and scars do fade not disappear but do fade. I suggest to look at any scars you may have had as a child like a cut and see what it looks now so you have an idea how YOUR body heals. My scar at 3mos is really not bad and it can take at least up to a year for it to heal. In my opinion I'd give a scar over a belly full of stretchmarks that I can't show off or feel confident in bed with my partner or on the beach. I am a beach baby at heart and it was always heartbreaking for me once summer rolled around. Top of the stretchmarks have an ugly belly not looking good with clothes. The trade off is a huge pay off. I cannot stop thanking my surgeon for the amazing job that he did especially removing all stretchmarks. I plan to post pics soon so I can show how my scar looks now. It is much diff than the pics above as the line has gone down and is not so up as it was in the beginning. Good luck! and no worries, no insults taken!
millywales 23 Apr 2012
i just wanted to ask about the scar please??
firstly i just want to preface my question by saying, i in no way mean to insult you or anyone else with a tummy tuck scar..just wanting to talk it over to see if icould come to terms with swapping stretchmarks and crinkly skin for a huge scar..
now for my concern...
the result looks fantastic with clothing on, but i wonder whether i'd be upset if i got it done, with the giant scar from one side of my body to another, like a rag doll sewn up.i have seen photos of peoples breast lifts too, and the position etc often look good, but at the end of the day, you're still left with big scars all over..i take it your photos are only a few weeks post op?
do the scars end up almost invisible, or will they always be noticable, even when they fade???
i want my tummy back how it used to be, but i'm concerned with whether i could cope with seeing the scar when it was actually done??
thanks for your time!
.Pinky 3 Mar 2012
Hey BrainyBrunette, is it possible that you send a private message regarding the price of your tummy tuck? I'm looking to go in for a consultation with Dr. Shafer soon, and I just wanted to know how the prices were like for him. Thank you so much in advance!
THENEWALEYA 15 Feb 2012
I meant no later than march
THENEWALEYA 15 Feb 2012
Well yea Im trying to do it later than march wanted to be healed by the summer time
TTgirl1 15 Feb 2012
either you do it now or early March but the later you wait the more uncomfy you will be when it gets warmer with having to wear the binder and less clothes. I did it Jan so this way I am all bundled up and not so obvious and perfect weather to wear the binder. Keep in mind it takes 4-6mos for the swelling to really go down but generally up to a year for all the swelling to subside. Plus no tanning for an entire YEAR unless you want your scar to be permanently showing on your body. The scar heals better and faster when it is not exposed to the sun. I did all my homework prior too!!
THENEWALEYA 15 Feb 2012
But I've been doing my reasearch to for a few yrs now also

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