I had a face lift and my upper eyelids done because my face was looking older than I actually feel. I had noticed just in the past year that my face and eyelids had really started to droop and sag. My jawline had really started to sag and my neck really was pretty bad as well. I was very self conscious about how I looked. I didn't do this for anyone but MYSELF! That is very important when choosing to have plastic surgery. Do it for yourself and you will be making the right decision. There are only pros in my decision to have the surgery. I never felt there were any cons to having this done. I looked forward to seeing the "new" me and I am thrilled!