Upper Eyelid Surgery - Raleigh, NC

I am a 37 yo female with drooping eyelids (esp my...

I am a 37 yo female with drooping eyelids (esp my right lid). I am having a TT on June 21st and figured that I needed more excitement and pain. Just kidding - I am excited to knock both of these out at one time.
A lot of people in my family have the same type of lids I do. I found out recently that my grandmother had her lids done - i had always wondered why her lids were different.
Well, I am excited and nervous - actually more nervous about my eyes than my belly but this is such a good opportunity, I won't be able to take 2 weeks off of work for quite awhile and it looks like most folks are returning to semi-normal around that time.
Wish me luck and feel free to share any wisdom! I will post pictures soon.

Before pictures posted

Here are the before pictures of my eyes. My kids helped me take the pictures with my iPhone. I am less than 2 weeks away and I am so excited. I wish there were more postings about eyelid surgery out there like there is for tummy tucks. I gathered the following supplies based on the reviews I have read so far:
- saline eye drops (just got Target's generic rewetting drops)
- eye ointment (again Target generic)
- Vaseline
- small and medium gauze
- clean package of q tips
- 2 large bags of frozen peas (I am going to divide them into a bunch of small snack size bags that my mom/husband can grab for my eyes)
- filled pain meds and anti nausea
- my dr have me some arnica tablets and cream (the cream may be for my other procedure).
- new concealer, foundation and powder (with fresh wounds I didn't want to risk using older makeup for that area)
- new eyeliner, mascara and eyeshadow
- recliner
- extra pillows
- books on tape (I downloaded an audiobook app from my library and created a list of books I want to listen to).
- podcasts - downloaded some shows to listen to like 'This American Life' from NPR.

I hope this helpful to anyone preparing for this procedure! Let me know if you have heard of anything else that would be useful.

Before pictures

Forgot to attach with my narrative.

It's done! Post op day 1

I have attached pictures that I took this morning. I think it is going to look good. The swelling in my right eye looks a little funny but I am sure it will go down. The eyes look painful but they really aren't just dry and blurry at times. The dr gave me some ointment - refresh that i have been using. I also bought eye drops that I just used. My tummy tuck is the source of all pain but feels a little better than yesterday.

Day 2

Ice is very important. My eyes feel so much better when I continue to ice on them. I am still using the Refresh ointment at night and Target brand lubricating drops in the day (every time I go to the bathroom). Still no pain in the eyes (I am taking pain killers for my tummy though) just an occasional tightness or dry feeling. Oh, and the bandage in my eye brow is where the PS removed a puffy mole. The eye surgery was a lot easier than I thought.

Day 3

I have started watching tv and reducing the amount of times I ice my eyes. The first two nights I used wet tea bags to keep everything moist. My right eye feels a little stiff but I can tell the swelling is going down.

Day 4

My eyes are very tired. Too much tv and computer time yesterday. I had to use the ointment before I went to bed last night and this morning they are kind of tight and dry. I continue to take Arnica Montana 3x a day and I think it is helping, my bruising looks less than others of course it may be all the ice I used too. Today I am going to switch to warm compresses.

Day 5

Tomorrow I get my stitches out! I am feeling better. I put a smudge of ointment on the lid of my right side and it really helped the tight and raw feeling that I thought was coming from the inside of my eye. I continue to take breaks and close my eyes and rest them for at least 15 to 30 minutes every 2 to 3 hours. I'm such a dork - I have been reading make up tutorials online. I can't wait to experiment with my new lids. It's like I am 14 again and my mom has given the ok to buy make up. If you are reading this now go buy some stock in Sephoria because I am about to paint the town!

Stitches out!

I had my post op and had my stitches removed. Yeah! My right eye is still a little irritated and swollen but the bruising is going away quickly. I am also adding a photo with more of my face because my eye shots look like one of the bald three stooges.
My doc said I can use makeup and contacts now. Hooray!

One week

I put on make up today and was surprised how tender my eyelids are. My right eye is noticeably more swollen than the other and it feels more tender. Just got to give it time.

Day 8

The bruising is pretty much gone and now I am just waiting for the swelling to go down. I think that the AC vent is what is irritating my right eye based on the position of my recliner (aka throne). Today I wore my contacts and my eyes felt great. It actually helped the irritation in my right. I also got out and walked more today and tried to do more around the house. I am going to wait a few more days before doing make up again because I really want everything to heal completely before introducing it to products/chemicals. Hard to wait though!

Day 9

Nothing too exciting to report. Put light make up on today avoiding the incisions on the lid. The entry and exit sites are still visible up close but going quickly from red to white.

Day 10

Called dr office this am to see if I needed to get this feeling of irritation checked out. Found out that it is quite normal with an upper bleph because the part of the eye that makes tears is swollen and it takes a few weeks for it to get back on track. The nurse Jenna told me to use my rewetting drops during the day and the ointment at night. So far so good. I am so glad I called, Jenna and everyone is so awesome and comforting. It's us so reassuring because many of the staff have had this exact procedure so it's not like they are reading from a pamphlet, they have lived it and can speak from experience. I changed my review to worth it. I love my new eyes. I hope they don't change too much when the swelling goes down.

Day 11

I have pictures of eyes opened and closed. Wish I had thought about adding a closed eye picture each day at the beginning. When my eyes are opened you can hardly tell anything has been done. Oh, I have ointment in my eyes - just in case you noticed they looked oily.

Day 12

New pics. Getting there slowly but surely.

Day 13

Nothing significant today. Hope these daily posts in the first two weeks are helpful for folks out there. I know I was hi hey for pics and info before the procedure. Good luck to all of you considering this procedure.

Day 14 (a day late)

Fell asleep before updating last night. My goal was to post daily for the first two weeks. Eyes are still dry if I don't use drops or ointment but are settling in nice. The tenderness has decreased near the brow and is just near the lashes now. The stitches site near my nose has almost gone and only my outside stitch site on the left is there though it looks like a wrinkle. I have one bruise remaining on my right eye near the crease that is easily disguised. I am hoping that as the swelling decreases my eyes will look more symmetrical.

3 weeks later

My eyes are still a bit tender near the eyelashes when I apply make up. The swelling has greatly reduced along with all but one of my stitch marks (hard to see it in the pictures). No one has said anything at work or seemed to notice and I prefer that - just wanted a subtle change. I can tell a difference in applying my eye make up. Still putting in the ointment most nights esp in my right eye.

4 weeks PO

Can still see slight scar on my left eye (see pic). My swelling has gone down a lot and now I wonder if a little more should have been taken. I still notice the difference when doing my eye make up. I was lazy with my make up this morning - don't judge it in my pics! Happy recovery all!

5 weeks PO

My eyes have settled in pretty well. Still have tenderness on right inside part of eye but significantly less each week. I also no longer have that feeling like something is stuck in my right eye.
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