Never Too Late. Providence, RI

I had considered having breast surgery for many years. When I was pregnant with my first child, I decided I wouldn't worry about what might happen to my body's appearance due to pregnancy and breastfeeding. I wanted to focus on health and my baby. Three children later, and an additional 15 years, I had a slender body that had weathered the ups and downs of motherhood, breastfeeding, etc. I realized though, I longed for a better proportioned body. Although I was slim and toned, my breasts were actually smaller than before I had children. I also felt- my time had come. For so long, I had put my children first and now wanted to take a look at the life I saw before me. I had taken excellent care of myself and wanted the reward of having a truly beautiful body.
I was very nervous about contacting a plastic surgeon, and at times felt selfish. The cost was hard to justify, yet at some point I had enough courage to research the doctors in the state. I looked to see where they had studied, their qualifications, certifications, etc. I was struck by the enormous amount of information and choices- incision site, under the muscle, over the muscle, the shape of the implant and type, etc. I realized how little I knew to make so many decisions, especially since this was a new experience. How could I possibly make the right choices? I decided to choose the most qualified doctor, looking beyond the numerous before and after pictures, and testimonials, and put my faith in the place it belonged- the expert. I was also impressed by the fact that my doctor did not publish photos, choosing rather to protect his patents' privacy. This was perfect- I was reassured by this philosophy and somewhat unconventional approach.
I made a request for a consultation with the doctor I felt was the most qualified, due to his credentials and education. I was also struck by the calm authority and confidence he projected on his youtube videos. I really didn't want to be part of a team making the decisions, I wanted to hear expert advice, and go from there. I wasn't disappointed.
I had my consultation and was surprised to see how non-threatening the process was. I felt apprehensive to be 50 and considering a procedure that clearly was designed to make me more attractive. It seemed too late, but I was determined to at least explore the options. I owed it to myself.
It's been a year later, and I still feel it was one of the best decisions of my life. Dr. Goldstein was incredible, and his staff made the entire process actually pleasant and almost painless. I have never felt so important in a medical situation. Each support person went out of her way to be informative, pleasant, and very caring. The actual procedure was almost painless. I was so excited the morning of the surgery because of the thoroughness of my doctor and his staff- they instill confidence due to their experience and attitude. The results were beyond my expectations. I hoped for youthful full breasts but didn't expect the effect of having different proportions. My waist now looked tiny, my posture seemed better, and needless to say- I smile much more now. Another unexpected bonus- my clothes looked much more appealing. I felt I had a whole new wardrobe.
I feel so much more like the real "me" than I ever did before the surgery. I wish I had known it was going to be so positive, and painless- I would have done it years before. This isn't something a woman does to improve her appearance for men- it's something a woman does for herself.