COMPLETE MOMMY MAKEOVER - Plano, TX
Pot bellies with large breasts are genetic in my...
Pot bellies with large breasts are genetic in my family. I had two children at a really young age which made my stomach and breasts HUGE. I dressed in large tunics every day and getting dressed was such a struggle because I was a size 12 in my stomach, a size 14 in my chest and a size 6 from the hips and down. i just wanted to be able to wear close to the same size clothes all over my body. Well THE SURGERIES DID JUST THAT! I'm 4 months post-op and a size 6 all over. The dr. Said he took about 6 lbs of fat out but at 4 months I'm down 24 lbs on the scale. Woohoo!!!
I'm learning how to dress correctly for my body now, but still find myself buying big safe clothing. I have much more confidence in my looks although at 4 months I'm still recovering. I swell, feel stiff and numb, and sometimes feel like I have a hard pocket of something under my stomach incision.
SCARS. they are the worst! I've just started using silicon sheets but still...I feel like I look like Edward Scissorhands attacked me. I didn't think scars would bother me so long as I was skinny, but they do. I'm actually embarrassed by them. I feel like I look "good" but only because I cheated. I'm trying to get over that feeling of cheating my way into looking good.
I wish I knew before this what a mental job this does to you. Especially if you are prone to depression. I'm still struggling with sadness. I think the surgeries only amplify those feelings.
I also wish I would have know the possible BAD STUFF that can happen after elective surgery. Unfortunately no one knows what to "search for" online beforehand to coverALL possible complications. I found that after the surgeries, when looking up things that I was feeling or had going on with my body, that was when I found information on all of the possibilities of horrible complications. That is scary.



Thank you SO much for sharing on RealSelf. Surgery can be very emotional and I don't think a lot of people realize that. I definitely don't consider surgery cheating. Especially if you have genetic factors that make it difficult to impossible to sculpt your body a certain way.
I hope the sadness passes soon so you can just enjoy your results.
Your scars will fade more and more over time, but if not enough for you, there are treatments you can do to lessen them.