My whole life I've been the girl with big boobs,...
My whole life I've been the girl with big boobs, it never really bothered me until highschool. When the back aches came, and the difficulty of finding clothes became an issue. I'm now about to be a junior in college and think it might be time to go through with it. I'm 145 pound 5'3 and a 38 G. I'm not quite sure if I should go through with this or not. I've done all the research and meeting with a plastic surgeon soon. But I just don't know if this is for me. What was your deciding factor?
My appointment for the consultation is Tuesday of...
My appointment for the consultation is Tuesday of next week! Scared/nervous/excited! Any advice from you ladies, what should I ask the doc? and anything else I need to know :)
I also want to know if any of you all have had...
I also want to know if any of you all have had kids AFTER breast reduction surgery. I know evantually I want to have children but being only 19, it's far down the road and I have a lot of living to do inbetween now and then.
I've been doing a lot of thinking the past few...
I've been doing a lot of thinking the past few days and have decided that if all goes through with the insurance (fingers crossed, pray for me ladies!) I will be going through with the surgery! Hope to find some nice ladies on here to help me through this journey. :)
Hello all! Still haven't gone to the consultation...
Hello all! Still haven't gone to the consultation it got re scheduled for later this month along with another consultation with a Reccomended surgeon from someone in my hometown. I have still stuck with the decision that if all works out with insurance I will be going through with surgery and try to schedule it sometime in December. Keep your fingers crossed for me and my insurance please! Haha and if you have any advice for the consultation please share! Haha thank you all :)
Went to consultation number one! I didn't really...
Went to consultation number one! I didn't really like the vibe I got from the surgeon, seemed very rushed and didn't make me comfortable with the procedure. I never even had a chanceto ask him for before and afters. So that being said a co worker recommended another surgeon and I'll be seeing her next week, Looking forward to it! and I told the surgeon I was seeing another surgeon for a second opinion and they kind of were like "why would you do that" I thought this was normal, but I guess not?
Went to number 2 and felt so much more comfortable...
Went to number 2 and felt so much more comfortable with this surgeon! Just waiting on the insurance, in 2-4 weeks I'll know for sure if I can do this. Both surgeons sent out claims so I hope that doesn't arise an issue, keep your fingers crossed for me!
This waiting for the insurance is driving me...
This waiting for the insurance is driving me crazy! I just want to know already! lol not to mention both surgeons sent out claims so it's stressing me out if that will affect what the insurance said. Can't they just take my word for it that I need this surgery stat?! hahaha I'll let you guys know the minute they tell me hah, though both surgeons said they don't see how they could deny me, still stressing about it. Thanks again for sharing all of your stories and offering support! :)
So got some news today regarding the insurance...
So got some news today regarding the insurance approval, I was a bit concerned about the fact that I had seen 2 surgeons and they both sent stuff into insurance so I called today to ask about it because it was just stressing me out to no end hahah. So I called and they said I did get approval with the first surgeon! (not the one I wanted, but still this means the second one should be good) I explained the situation and the women was very helpful at seeing what needed to be done, I told her I wanted to go with the second surgeon and she said that what they had done was combine the claims, thinking both dr's were in the same office, but now the second surgeon would have to go through the process again, which is fine by me because she said if the surgeon provided the same information I would be getting approved!!! So not getting 100% excited about it yet but I'd say I'm letting myself get 85% excited because they approved it once, why not the second time!!!!!!!! Thank you all for your support and hope your all having great recoveries and enjoying the final weeks of summer :)
Adding what I hope to be a before pic!
Adding what I hope to be a before pic!
I just have a quick question, or reflection I...
I just have a quick question, or reflection I guess.. I've been thinking A LOT (maybe too much lol) about this surgery and I've been thinking I do get this surgery, I feel like I’m telling all those people that made comments, all those people that said “jeez you should get a breast reduction”.. that “yeah I guess you were right..” is this the weak decision, am I caving in because everyone around me for so long has told me I wasn’t good enough, and in order to be good enough I have to do this… I know it’s an outlandish thought but it keeps running through my mind… I hope that these thoughts go away so I can get the surgery with out feeling defeated… but… man it’s tough. Have any of you ever experienced any of these thoughts?
Well I called the insurance company about a week...
Well I called the insurance company about a week ago check if I got approval, and they told me I was approved with the surgeon I wanted as the treating physician! Just waiting on the ps's office to give me a call, if they don't call within the next few days I plan on giving them a call as it's been about 4 weeks since my appointment. So it looks as though this is going to be possible! I'll let you all know when I hear from the Ps, and thanks for all the support!!! :) Hope you all continue to heal well and what not and enjoy the final weeks of summer!
I called and it is officially official I HAVE BEEN...
I called and it is officially official I HAVE BEEN APPROVED! but can't schedule it until next week :( the office is out on vacation I called in and the person who schedules the appointments had already left, so I'm going to have wait until next week :( which is a bit of a bummer because I wanted it all squared away before I headed back to college, but atleast I know what's going on and will have my surgery date soon! :) Everyone enjoy the final week of summer !!! :)
My surgery is scheduled! December 27'th! I was...
My surgery is scheduled! December 27'th! I was just wondering though is it odd I am not going to have a pre op appointment? I asked the women if we should schedule it now on the phone and she said she didn't think so as the doctor already knew everything and unless I had more questions it wouldn't be necessary she made it very clear that if I needed to ask more questions I was more than welcome to come in, but it wouldn't be necessary unless I felt it was. Is this typical?
It's been quite a while sense I posted but omg my...
It's been quite a while sense I posted but omg my surgery is in 2 days! I cannot believe it.... ! I'm so excited/scared/nervous and everything in between can't wait for this to be over! Any last minute tips feel free to share :)
My PS didn't require a pre-op either. I live almost two hours away and don't know if that was part of it or not. But I did call several times with questions and they were very kind to answer them all. Don't hesitate and call if you would like to see your doc prior to surgery. If for no other reason than to calm your anxieties.
Good News!
Congratulations! That is so awesome :-D I'm with Fay...I'd call them ASAP and get them working on a date! Let us know!
I have finished all my kids now and that is why I am having it done now, and why I waited. But it wasn't so much to do with breast feeding. As Iowa correctly points out, many people can't breast feed. I couldn't with my second. Modern formula is excellent and believe me bonding is not an issue no matter what any La Leche League militants might tell you! For me, it was more about the size and shape change I knew they would go through.
It is entirely down to your individual circumstances as to whether you want to wait or not. But bear in mind they may well grow back after pregnancy, necessitating a second reduction, or because you are still so young and may not have finished "growing" yet (although my God, let's hope so!)
I think if you do it now, you won't regret it at all, but looking back if I am completely honest jam glad I waited. BUT I was never as big as you. It's a difficult one because the decision is entirely dependant on your own individual circumstances.
But don't think for a second you a pandering to the BR crowd. It's all about you, not them!
I think the thing you have to decide is if this is something important to you. Do you have pain that impacts your life? Do you feel self-conscious about your breasts? Do you feel limited in your activities or clothing because of your size? Do you think this surgery is going to help any of this? You need to be honest with yourself with how you feel now. Don't let anyone talk you into or out of the procedure. You are only 19, so either way you go will be fine, as long as it is right for you. You still have plenty of time to get it done, though your pain will increase and the breasts will continue to grow. But also at 19, you should heal quickly and wonderfully. It is totally normal to have anxieties and jitters about this. We all were second-guessing our decision when it came down to the wire. You have to decide what is right for you, and I can tell you that this was right for me. I have no regrets at all!
WooHoo! Sounds like good news! Let us know when it is official!
Fingers crossed!
So happy to hear that this appointment went so well for you! Best of luck with the approval!!
Good luck with your second consult. Hope it goes better than the first!
And on the topic of breast feeding, even with my enormous breasts I couldn't nurse my kids. I use to get comments all of the time like, "I can't believe YOU can't produce enough milk!" I felt like a failure. Then I had a woman on here say that she had a hard time to because he babie just couldn't suck hard enough on her huge nipples to release the milk. Made me feel better. So just because you have large breasts doesn't mean breastfeeding will be a breeze.