Excited but VERY Nervous - Fort Worth, TX

I have wanted this procedure for a long time and...

I have wanted this procedure for a long time and have thought about it constantly. Finally going through with it, but, though i am scared of the surgery, i am more scared of my friends and family judging me. the only people who know are my mom and boyfriend and i am too scared to tell anyone else. I really want this, but am very very nervous.

Monday is the day...any advice?

hey yall my surgery is on monday and i was wondering if yall had some advice on what to do,buy,etc before and after surgery? i have been researching a few things but i would love to hear yall opinions!
Fort Worth Plastic Surgeon

My mom, sister in law, and many acquaintances and other family have used him.

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Thinking of you today, hoping for a beautiful outcome for you!
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Good luck on Monday!!! I did not tell anyone except my husband, one of my oldest friends that has been taking care of my daughter while I'm healing. I am a very private person and feel the only people this will affect is myself and my husband.....I don't want to hear any negatives...it's not about them and is not any of their business. My mom does not even know...didn't want to worry her about surgery. A few of my lifesavers post op was a wedge pillow and a body pillow...and of course the Smooth Move Tea! And all of the wonderful people on this site that post their daily experiences. What size are you going with?
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i bought some soft cami bras from walmart and ice packs for after surgery… try to have some pillows to prop yourself comfortably… nutrient-rich foods for efficient recovery… and I'm still looking for easy clothing to button or zip in front.
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Oh its SO close!!! What size are you going with? And what type implant? The one big thing that really helped my post surgery wax a neck pillow. And lots of other pillows to prop yourself up with. But the neck one saved my life ;) I will be following your journey. Best of luck.! Xx
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Oh and my bestie did her boobs " in secret" as she also didnt want to tell people. I told all my clients and family. And after my friend actually said she wished she had done it like me bbecause I got so much support from people. You will br surprised at how sweet people actually are about it. And the people I feared telling the most surprised me with their reactions because they were the ones who understood. Lol. Anyway it is s personal thing and you should do what feels comfortable. Hoping this weekend will zoom by xxxx
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My surgery is in 5 days and I am also feeling scared! Almost everyone in my circle knows and a few outside my circle as my husband it telling everyone he's getting "Boobs" for Christmas. I had reservation more about people judging my choice of money when there are so many other things I could do with that amount of money. In the end, my self esteem is worth the price of surgery. I look at it as an investment in myself. If people do talk about it, it will be on their minds for about 5 minutes and then they will get on with their own life.
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thanks! things like this make me feel better. I am also worried about the backlash from spending the money instead of saving it... but it is my money so i will spend it how i want! thanks again your support really helps.
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Keep your head up! I know it's easier said then done, but don't worry about what others may say or think!!! We are not defined by our boobies :)
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this is true! thank you for your support. i am getting very excited!
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What are you scared others will say?
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honestly i dont even know!!! i guess questions of why i did it.. also worried about them not looking natural... i am just a nervous pervous. i need to let go of that fear of what others will think but its tough!
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I agree about being scared about people's opinions about money and looking real but I try to remind myself that what matters most is what I think when I look myself in the eye in the mirror. Then I don't have to justify what I do to others if they disapprove.
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