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Emotional Mess After Tummy Tuck until I found an amazing Plastic Surgeon Dr Nijher @ Ocala Plastic Surgery.

  • posted 4 years ago
  • updated 11 months ago

I decided to have a tummy tuck after my 3rd child....

I decided to have a tummy tuck after my 3rd child. she really did a number. I had no stretch marks but lax skin that petruded when I sat down. I chose to have a TT, MR AND LIPO to fix my problem. I thought a TT would make me happier about myslef.

After several meeting with my PS we had established I could have a low scar. When i finally saw my tummy my scar was half way up my belly. This has put me in an emotional state of mind I cant snap out of. This is not what we talked abt. Not only the scar but I had increased swelling at day 14 an the PS said I coud have pulled a stitch (How I would have done this is beyond me I have been on my butt for 2 wks.)

If I could do this all over I would have taken more time to find a better PS. That would have given me what I payed for.

I am now 9 weeks an still unhappy. I have spoke...

I am now 9 weeks an still unhappy. I have spoke with my PS abt scar revision and he wants to charge me. I also have excess skin an jigglyness in my upper tummy. I asked him abt it an he pinched the rolls an told me to put it on the back burner. Why did I even pay him? This is crazy I trusted him and he lied to me. I wish I woiuld have choosen a different PS. Now im having to pay another 8 grand to have it fixed.  

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3 yrs have gone and passed since I had my first...

3 yrs have gone and passed since I had my first Tummy Tuck. When I think about what happen and the outcome of my first tummy tuck it still creates a tornado of emotions. I wont finish this update without tears in my eyes. I trusted a board certified surgeon practicing in Inverness Florida to preform a TT that ended with disasterous results. I have decided to post pictures this time to show what I started at, where I went and where it ended. Two years after the first procedure I found an amazing Plastic Surgeon in Ocala, Florida, Dr Nijher. I will admit he wasn't the first surgeon I met with to discuss revisions, but he was the most honest and forthcoming about my situation and gave me realistic hopes.
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One year after the worst day of my life, I am finally at the point that I can have my TT corrected. Several PS on this site told me my results are normal. After meeting with several PS I was assured that my TT was done unethical. I have spent plenty of tears and dollars on my poor choice of Dr. Please do your research if you have a tiny little doubt or question something a PS says see someone else. Dont go against your first instinct. I had my first revision 3 days ago and I feel wonderful except for the fact I dished out another 8k. In 6 mnts I have the last part of my revision and then I will follow up with a tattoo to cover what is left of a bad decision.

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cheweb 21 Jul 2012
Oh ok. My appointments are next month. I will be 5 months then so I am hoping they can evaluate me to determine what can be done at my 6 month mark. I am going to see a surgeon that I consulted with but just didn't select because he wasn't familiar with doing the TT with the hysterectomy, but I think he is an excellent PS. I will meet him first and get his opinion and then I will meet with my doctor. I don't think my original PS will charge me for any additional services on this procedure but if we have to go to the hospital, I am thinking I will have to pay those fees. But if I choose the other PS, I will have to pay for his service and surgery center costs (he has his own facility). I will have to see what they say so I know my options.What I think I want is some lipo and my scar lowered on the sides and just taken more to the side then up on my stomach. I don't know if I would need MR this soon so I am hoping this would be an easier surgery. Why did you have to get the MR so soon after your first one? Did the first doctor not do it tight enough?
cheweb 12 Jul 2012
Hi there. I am so sorry to hear about your issues. I too feel I am in need of a revision. I hate my scar. Its way higher than I had wanted and I am sooo depressed about it as well. I am emotional and cannot stop thinking about it and researching about it and talking about it. I have an appt with my PS next month and I will be 6 mos in September and she said she would do whatever she could but she kept acting like she had no choice to do it the way she did and I just cannot accept that. So glad you were able to get it fixed and feel better about your results now. It really make a difference!
cheweb 12 Jul 2012
By the way, did you have your post revision pics?
chazzypink 15 Jul 2012
The last picture with tape is how low my new scar is now. That was 1 week post op. It has been a year since my revision and the scar is nearly gone. I just returned home from FL from having my stitches removed from the revision I had on my vertical BB scar. Im waiting for my swelling to go down and I will post my new pics.
Hang in there, I know its easier said then done. If you need a whole scar revision you might consider meeting with a few different PS to see what they have to say.
cheweb 21 Jul 2012
Ok, thank you so much. I actually have an appointment with another PS right before my appointment with mine so I can go into my consult with her with someone else's opinion. I not only don't like my scar but I still feel fat. Not what I had in mind at all. Who wants to feel like you have to do all kinds of working out after you have a procedure such as this? I mean, I don't mind tightening things up but I don't want to have to work down my stomach, you know? I can't wait to see your after pics. I am sure that will be motivating to me. I know you are so happy you were able to get the revision but it does such you had to pay full price for it. Was this procedure just to adjust the scar and skin or did you also get MR again?
chazzypink 21 Jul 2012
My 2nd TT revised the scar and MR. But the revisions I had 2 weeks ago was to make the old BB scar smaller and to clean up a small dog ear on one side. Did yo make it to your apt yet?
Beautychick 6 Jul 2012
Thanks for the good advice & for sharing your experience! I'm so sorry you had to go through this. I will be extra careful with researching my PS after reading this!
chazzypink 6 Jul 2012
@Beauty, there were no red flags. I asked page fulls of questions at my consultation and researched the PS. On paper he should have been a great PS. I am not the only person this has happen to with him. Since I posted my SX many others have come forward and spoke up. If I prevent one person from being mutilated and deceived by that monster my SX and the outcome is worth it. If I had to give one piece of advice, it would be dont just choose a PS based on him having the right answers or great pics in his office of previous SX. Ask questions, research with testimony outside of the their websites. If you cant find anything on the surgeon good or bad pick another PS. A good PS will always have great reviews online.
Beautychick 26 Jun 2012
Im so sorry for what happened to you! This is probably every patients worst nightmare! You did everything right & still ended up unhappy with the results. In hindsight did you see any red flags during your consult of pre-op? Just wondering for those of us who haven't had our surgeries yet...maybe things we should look out for.
dsc1 3 Jul 2012
make sure you have discussed everything and u and doc r on same page - sometimes doc is not completely honest about their technique and what the limits r etc
SexySue 26 Jun 2012
Hi Chazzypink, thanks for the update. I can't imagine waking up to something not agreed upon before hand. Im so please to read that you had your 1st TT corrected by an amazing surgeon who is also realistic with you and that you are comfortable with. He has done an amazing job bringing the scar down so low. Happy healing and pleased to for you!
dsc1 6 Jun 2011
i just feel like ps's are brutes and they totally lie to get you as a client and then you come home and you are liek a victim who is left alone to deal with all of your sad thoughts and feeling so thrown off by the way you look. This has made me really want to fight for women to accept themselves for who they are and to put these guys out if business. Work out, eat sensibly and if you do not have a perfect body so what?! You have perfect children that God gave you and this is what happens - it is not unnatural or ugly in any way - only what we make it. It's like be careful what you get for. I do not feel like my PS thoroughly informed me at all. But it's done and over for us all and we must move forward. See a counselor if needed so you don't compound the mistakes and I would stop - don't get anymore surgery and live with your self for a while.
rack 24 Aug 2010
I will add to u ladies about tramatized bad results. I had a ftt with ab tightening a year plus ago, results left me looking about 4mths pregnant which was very obvious about 4mths after surgery. OMG after doing about six mths of extensive search and research for BSPS and about ten consults which all concluded that my issue was lack muscles. After sleepless nights, keen consideration, tears, frustration, depression i gave in a few mths ago and did a revision after been advised that a revision would improve my situation the job was worst than the first i am so confused i don't even want to talk about it no more, but just to let some of u ladies know that some of us did really get a raw deal and left us an emotional wreck.
dsc1 5 Jul 2011
r u feeling better now? i have hated it and I wonder how long the depression will last. i see it's been about a year for you soI hope it did pass.
dsc1 8 Jul 2011
r u feeling better now? it's brutal i know - been almost a year for you. for me not even 2 mths and i am not better yet.
blue44 10 May 2010
Have you been able to fix your scar? and do you have a pic of your revision? I too have the same problem, high tt scar, and very unhappy and depressed. Dr's dont realize how much damage they do to a persons emotional life when they dont put importance to a small detail that is big to us the patient. Sorry and hope you get your problemed improved.
blue44 8 Aug 2009
Look at it this way, since you have skin left over its a possibility it can be fixed, my situation my PS did a great job on making my skin as tight as he could but my scar is high on one side and he might not be able to fix it. Good luck.
blackrainbow 25 Jun 2009

Yeah you can't sue and even if you tried, most Plastic Surgeons make you sign a waver in your right to sue to protect there ass. I am going through something similar my scar is very high as well and my scar is all jacked. I am talking to my PS about revision and he gave me the whole bs story, I cannot fix it and its my fault. I came out looking the way I do. I feel the same in I hate hearing about TT's and some peeps don't realize that bad things can happen and do. I wish I found this site before, I would have reconsidered. Sure you get a flatter stomach but a messed up scar is far worse than excess skin and fat in my book. I was told I was going to look great and be able to wear a bikini, I am not able to and the line comes out of all of my pants. I am completely humiliated that I put that much trust into someone. He has offered to give me laser treatments in a sense to shut me up. I have to wait like 3 years to have mine fixed. I was going to say to you personally you can find a medical malpractice attorney in your area actually and see if someone will take your case for free and sue for medical malpractice. Pull the card that you are disfigured and have been through emotional turmoil because you were told something and now... Hopefully you have alot of before and after pics that can help the case alot. I wouldnt just sue for money back but, more...compensation.

dsc1 5 Jul 2011
r u better now? i have had similar feelings and a LOT of regret but can't take it back and I have kids and have to move on so what to do?
blackrainbow 3 Jun 2009

there should be a crime against doing that, there is no reason he or she had to do that. just ridiculous. you have a nice figure and I would go to someone else and have it lowered and yes i believe it is possible :) I might have to get mine revised too. good luck :)

chazzypink 3 Jun 2009
Thank you, sorry it took so long to reply, i have been so depressed anything TT related makes me sick. I hate my outcome. I have since had apts with him and most recently i discussed my extra skin that should have been removed he told me to put it on the back burner.. i am so mad an even suing him is near impossible bc its a matter of opinion.
deboraht2 24 Apr 2009
Hi, I know what you're feeling and I'm sorry. I kindda went through the same thing. I did a mini tuck after being told that the scar was about 6 inches long which is about 2 inches longer than my c-section scar, but would be much lower so I could hide it more easily. Of course afterwards, the scar was nearly hip to hip and I had no idea about drains and that I couldn't shower while I had the drains in (8 whole days). Needless to say I was shocked at both the scar/pain and then the post care that I hadn't expected. I refused a full tummy tuck all along because I didn't want that kind of scarring and now I managed to get into one without knowing so. My PS justified it by saying I had a lot of skin to work with.. all bull and if that were true, he should have told me during the consultation and pre-op, not let me wake up to it. And worse than the betrayal I felt, the mini tuck turned out HORRIBLE!. 4 months post op, my upper belly flops over the lumpy but flat bottom belly. The PS suggested that I do a full tuck and he'll discount it for me since I was unhappy but the scar's length would increase.. no way! Plus I don't trust him anymore. I found another surgeon and I just did a modified tuck. It's been 2 weeks post op and I have high hopes because so far so good. Go get some more opinions from other surgeons and if they start looking or smelling funny, go somewhere else. My 2nd experience was entirely different and much more positive than the first. And finally, I can tell you that you can get the scar lowered through another tuck or modified tuck and don't let any surgeon tell you that it's not do-able because I know for a fact that is it.
deboraht2 29 Apr 2009
Hi chazzypink, I got your email but I haven't been able to figure out how to email you back, LOL. When I did the mini tuck in Dec. 2008, the incision was about 1/2 inch above my groin/pubic area. That is definitely easily hidden under a bikini. When I did the modified tuck just 2 weeks ago, the doctor made the incision even lower (by the millimeters because there wasn't much further to go) so that I won't have 2 scars. He wasn't the only surgeon I've seen about correcting my mini tuck and they all said the same thing, that I could have my scar even lower, not that it was necessary other than to avoid having train tracks on my belly. I'm 105 lbs and very petite and even so, they said there's skin to work with. But I guess the bottom line is that I'm not a surgeon and only they can tell you what is or is not possible. If you want the name of my surgeon, I'll be more to happy to give it to you and maybe if you're out on the West coast visiting, you can swing by his place for a consultation.
chazzypink 3 Jun 2009
how are you doing? did u figure out how to email? how are the new results?
2bad 3 May 2013
Hi, I am 50lbs overweight 2 years after losing most of my left leg in a motorcycle accident. I gained weight spending months in bed and in a wheelchair. I now have a prostetic leg and want my belly gone. I thought a tummy tuck would make me look better and give me incentive to lose more weight. I would love to know the name of your plastic surgeon. I live in Ocala FL but I'm willing to travel an hour or two for the right surgeon, Thanks.

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