At 48 years old, I looked and felt much younger...
The surgery itself remains a blur. I remember waking up in recovery feeling very groggy and out of it. My son drove me home and I slept through until the following morning. At my first post-op appointment the following morning, they removed the bandages from my head which was a relief, but I was not prepared for how I would look. No matter how many pictures you look at, it doesn't prepare you to see your own swollen, bruised face. And it's true, it really doesn't hurt much at all.
I had significant bruising under my eyes which were also swollen from the blepharoplasty. Most of the swelling I experienced was along my jaw line. At one week out, I put on makeup and sunglasses and ventured out to Easter services at church but I really was not yet presentable. At two weeks, I put on makeup and sunglasses and went to my grandchildren's ballgame and it was not too scary for small children and animals. Today at 2 1/2 weeks, I'm feeling very comfortable in public. I am still bruised, especially under my right eye. My jaw is still swollen, especially on the left side, It leaves me looking a little lopsided but not bad. The scars at my ears, eyelids and under my chin are still pretty visible. Everywhere I am swollen, I am still numb which is a weird feeling. Where the anchors from my brow lift are placed is tender and swollen and it will take a couple months to dissolve and resolve.
What is amazing is my neck. I am so beyond thrilled to have all signs of jowls and turkey wattles eradicated. My eyes are also wide open. I can absolutely see what I will look like once healed and I couldn't be happier.
At this point I am still very much healing although most people, even those close to me, wouldn't be able to tell. The spots where the anchors in my head are are still very tender. They are dissolvable but are still very much there. All of my bruises have faded except the one under my eye on the right side. The scars in front of my ear at the hairline are now laying flat and very, very thin although still purple. The ones behind my ears are flattening but still pretty bumpy. The scar under my chin continues to flatten and fade. The scars on my eyelids are very thin and you cannot see them at all with a touch of concealer.
I have regained a lot of feeling. However, my left ear is still numb as is my jawline and under my chin. It is a strange feeling (or lack thereof!). My jaw is still pretty swollen, especially on the left side. My neck feels very tight which is a feeling that I am very okay with! I get occasional shooting, electrical shock type feelings, especially on the right side of my scalp, as nerves heal.
I have returned to most activities with some exceptions. I cannot wear my helmet because of the sore anchor spots so no bike riding. Any exercise or yoga position that puts my head down doesn't work - downward dog caused my face to bloat for hours. I am still sleeping on my back with my head elevated and probably will until the swelling is completely gone.
I've had people ask how I feel about it and if I'd do it again (I haven't hidden what I was having done from anyone). My answer is unequivocally yes.
Dr. Weinfeld was wonderful, from the first consultation through my post surgery appointments. He takes all of the time you need to explain what he thinks will work best, explain the procedures in detail and answer questions. He is positive and upbeat as well as professional and realistic. I would highly recommend him.