I understand your concern about scarring. However in my experience the most important thing is to achieve a beautifully shaped properly positioned breast and nipple. Your second consultation using appropriate sized breast implants sounds like a better option.
Does scarring affect your patrons generosity in terms of gratuities? If not and you truly need a lift, a vertical lift produces a much better profile then the Benelli procedure. Scars will take a long time for the redness to resolve. Without photos, its hard to comment on just what would be best for you as the goal results you show represent more of a natural look rather than super perky.
The pictures are before and afters of other patients? It is very difficult to assess what would be appropriate for you without examining you and trying on sizers in the office.
Kenneth Hughes, MD
Los Angeles, CA