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Should I Talk to my Parents About Rhinoplasty?

asked 1 year ago by Nottingham in Nottingham, MD
Latest answer by Robert L. Kraft, MD
Question viewed 762 times
Tags: age 17 or under, female, options, teenager

I'm sixteen years old, and for as long as I can remember, my nose has been terrible. I'm incredibly self-conscious about my nose. Because of it, I've always been relatively shy around people I'm not close with because I feel like they're just staring at my nose and not me. I really want to feel confident and I don't want my nose to stop me from living my life. What should I do?

16 answers to Should I Talk to my Parents About Rhinoplasty?

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Teenage Rhinoplasty: Everybody is staring at my nose!!

I remember when I was your age, and I thought I was mature and knew everything and that everyone over 30 was soooo old!  Right now your physical body is a pool of raging hormones, and that messes with how your brain works.  Try to get out there and be with your friends, the ones who know the 'real you' and talk about your feelings and try to work out your fears with their help.  Definitely talk to your parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles, anyone that is interested... more
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Rhinoplasty

A few points:  Your nose is not terrible.  But, all of us have our insecurities.  Even those that we perceive to be very beautiful.  I would venture to say also that your true friends love you for who you are.  Nevertheless, the kind words will not likely change your opinion.  At this age, I would definitely talk with your parents.  They may discourage the procedure.  You can digest their opinion and also visit several plastic surgeons.  You... more
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Parents and rhinoplasty

If you are self-conscious about the size and shape of your nose, then you should definitely express this to your parents. Many things factor into a decision for surgery: finances, nose v. that car, lack of self esteem, preparedness to undergo a surgical procedure, etc. Definitely confide in them and try to listen to their input. Given that you are under age 18 you cannot undergo a surgical procedure without their consent. You may also want to speak to a counselor about your lack of... more
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Rhinoplasty - 16 Year Old

First thing you have to do is talk to your parents about your feelings. Then ask them if you can see a Plastic Surgeon for a consultation. If your folks agree then do your homework about doctors specializing in Rhinoplasty in and around your area. Seeing a surgeon allows you to express your specific concerns to someone who can educate you as to what can and cannot be done to improve the appearance of your nose. You also get a reality check about cost, and risks involved in the... more
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Rhinoplasty

Hello, Having plastic surgery is strictly a personal decision, and you should choose to do whatever makes you the most happy. Please feel free to send any additional, close-up side profile and frontal photos of your nose to my office and I would be happy to provide you with advice. My contact info is listed in my profile. Thank you, and best of luck to you. Dr. Nassif
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Speaking To Parents re Rhinoplasty

First of all, whether or not you have a rhinoplasty, your nose should not  "stop me from living my life". With all due respect, you must discuss this with your parents - at 16 years old, you are a minor.  Parental and professional advice will be beneficial.
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Yes, talk over Rhinoplasty decision with your parents.

It is common for teens to want to change the appearance of their nose. In my experience, the majority of parents are willing to listen to their teens and support the decision for Rhinoplasty. The earliest age for Rhinoplasty is 15, but parental consent is required. Your photo shows a prominent bump, which should correct nicely with rhinoplasty. Good Luck.  -Dr. G
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Talk to your parents about rhinoplasty...I did!

I feel your pain--I was 14 when I had my nose fixed. Mine was just about as bad as yours and I felt deformed. Nothing could be worse for the self-esteem of a teenager than to feel misshapen. I begged my Mom to let me get my nose fixed, and she could see how terrible my self-esteem was, so she encouraged me to call a doctor myself, which I did! I think the surgeon was a little hesitant to operate on me, because I was so young, but when I told him that "even... more
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Speaking to Parents regarding Teenage Rhinoplasty

Nottingham in Nottingham, MD, It's very important to have this plastic surgery discussion with your family. Outside of financial support and providing informed consent for surgery, one should have the emotional support of loved ones following rhinoplasty surgery. From a surgical standpoint, rhinoplasty for teenagers is typically considered around 16 for girls and 17 for boys.  Rhinoplasty is common plastic surgery procedure for teenage boys and girls. The nose is... more
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Teenage Rhinoplasty

Should I Talk to my Parents About Rhinoplasty? I'm sixteen years old, and for as long as I can remember, my nose has been terrible. I'm incredibly self-conscious about my nose. Because of it, I've always been relatively shy around people I'm not close with because I feel like they're just staring at my nose and not me. I really want to feel confident and I don't want my nose to stop me from living my life. What should I do? I would consider performing... more
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Rhinoplasty for Teens

Your parents should be involved in any surgical décision that you contemplating. Your n'ose may bother you but I would advise considering surgery long and hard at your age. Dr. ES
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Teenage rhinoplasty

It is reasonable to want some improvements with your nose especially if its over projecting and large. You are old enough to have the procedure, but I would definitely discuss your concerns with your parents both since they will most likely assist with the payments of the procedure as well as help with the after care. In addition, it is always best to have the advice of your parents for major decisions like that. Finally, you are a minor and it is best to have your parents give not only... more
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Yes but...

Hi, First of all let me tell you as a surgeon who focuses on noses, your nose is really not that bad at all and it will not stop you from living your life and I bet most people are not looking at your nose.  You need to know this. Now with this said, many teenagers or even adults gain much more immediate self confidence after a successful rhinoplasty."  I say successful rhinoplasty because a bad nose job can make you feel even more self conscious and depressed so be... more
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Should have an open discussion with parents about rhinoplasty surgery

You should definitely discuss this issue with your parents.  It is not unusual for a teenager to feel the way you feel about your nose.  An open discussion is mandatory then if there is agreement see a plastic surgeon about what is involved.  
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Talk to my Parents About Rhinoplasty

Yes tell and discuss your desires for a rhinoplasty. Than go see a boarded plastic surgeon with your parent to discuss your case. Best of luck. 
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Speaking to your parents about rhinoplasty

At 16 years of age, it would be required that you have a parent or guardian consent to a rhinoplasty if you chose to have one.  I feel very strongly that discussing your dissatisfaction with your nose with your parents would be the right thing to do.  There are many choices to be made.  These include finding the right facial plastic surgeon, and deciding what your realistic goals are. Even if you were 18 years or older, I would encourage you to discuss this with loved ones... more

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