I am very upset its like Ive never had any surgery at all... Im frustrated, and scared ,. I spent over $9000 . Im so swollen and tender still.. My dr says this is it I should be healed by now, I can expect 20% more flattening.. is this normal? he says to lose 20 more lbs and have a tummy tuck to see change? what gives? the scale hasnt moved ... what should I do?