Shouldn't my Silicone Implants Be Feeling More Natural?

I have had what I consider many complications since i had my 550cc and 525cc breast augmentation done almost 10 weeks ago. I feel that before the surgery was performed the i v had problems going into my vein. i have rolling veins which I explained to them as they were having a very difficult time finding a vein that would accept the i.v. They finally had it inserted at the top of my wrist. When they stated the I.V., I was experiencing horrible pain and burning and quickly expressed that I thought the fluid was not going totally in my vein and that there was aproblem. As they were stating that everything would be fine I had passed out. Upon waking, I was in excrusiating pain,crying and begging them to give me some pain medication. I was told that they could not, but that my friend who drove me could give me some of my pain medicine once I was in the parking lot.
Although I had swelling in my arm where the I.V. had been placed, I did not have red blood streaks or a big bump like phlibitis sometimes causes.I had shooting pain from my wrist to my elbo or slightly above on the front and back of my arm when I would move it certain way. More rarely the pain would go into two fingers. While caudleing my arm against my body to hold it in one position to try to avoid the horrible pain, I developed terrible neck, front of chest and shoulder pain. The anesthesiologist checked the blood pressure in all my finger tips and said they were97% and that I was fine. When I was out of pain medication on day 8, I believe, and requested more explaining my problems I was told that I just needed to relax and that I was only allowed to take 1 tylenol. Every night I would cry in pain, take many showers avoiding any hot water on my breast, not sleep for more than a couple of hours a time, took many doses of nyquil at a time trying to sleep and nothing got better.I was unable to go to work obviously and at 2 weeks post op called again to tell the doctor how horrible things were and was told by the receptionist that I should not be feeling that way, and that maybe i needed to go to the emergency room. I did not want the expense, but a couple of nights later I couldn't bear the pain any longer and did go. An ultrasound was done of my arm which showed no clots, an x-ray was done of my neck which showed some normal disc wear which they said could be normal for my age of 39 and an x-ray was done of my chest which they said could be showing signs of the beeginning stages of pnemonia. I was put on an anibiotic and given some pain medication to hold me over a couple of days until I could see my plastic surgeon. When seeing him, I was told that i was doing all this to myself and that i must be an anxious type person causing stress to myself. He took my arms and and rapidly moved them up and down in opposite directions while i was telling him it was very painful. He then pushed on my shoulders many times, told me to relax and walked out as quickly as he had come in( maybe spending 2 minutes in the room with me). After getting dressed, being in a lot of pain, I was unable to carry anything and was unable to drive and given no medication. I went to a family doctor who perscribed me pain medicine and muscle relaxers which helped tremendously. They are now gone and I am once again having horrible pain in my right shoulder, neck, sometimes upper back and am not sleeping well while taking 4 to5 hot showers at night. In addition, 3 stitches were redone under 1 of my breasts, I was put on 2 more sets of antibiotic eventhough the surgeon insits that it is just to be on the safe side because i have no infection. Also, my implants which are submuscular and high profile have not dropped much, when I stretch or yawn deeply, it feels asthough someone is squeezing the implants and then my breasts have shooting pain off and on, and the surgeon told me last that it will take 9 months to a year for the implants to fully drop. could I have capsular contraction that will show itself more in the next month?