Your requests based on the side view photo you provided are quite reasonal.
I would suggest you pick an experienced Plastic surgeon that you are comfortable with and present him/her with photos of noses you like and, more importantly, that you do NOT like.
Then, analyze several views of your nose. The terminology rhinoplasty surgeons use is different than lay English and you and your surgeon need tto be on "the same page" as each look of the nose would require a custom set of surgical maneuvers.
As regards your particular circumstances, I would suggest:
1. smooth the nasal hump - this would require side fractures of your nose to make it less wide than it would be if the hump was taken off and nose left alone ( an open roof deformity)
2. Nasal tip refinement - I WOULD recomment that your tip be rotated slightly upwards. It does NOT have to be upturned button nose you referred to BUT a slight rotation with slight refinement
3. Reduce Columellar show - lessen the amount of the septum showing from a side view
4. Consider liposuction of your chin for a much more attractive side view.
Other procedures may need to be added if you have difficulty breathing / deviated septum or a gummy smile.
BUT, the key is to pick a surgeon you can really speak with who will understand your wishes.