This may sound like a dumb question but I really want to make sure I'm doing this right. It's been a month since surgery and I've been given the go ahead to try massage along with my taping routine. What is the technique for post operative lower eyelid massage? What kind of pressure should I use? I have a palate graft in place, so I'm terrified that I'm going to press too hard and damage the graft. My surgeon is a ferry ride away so I can't easily ask him.