Your questions can only be meaningfully addressed with a personal consultation. Even the photos you have provided are very fuzzy.
Generally, I think it is important to understand that a conservative eyelid surgery that shows very little change is not considered a complication but rather the sign of good operative judgement. You appear to have very thin, crepey lower eyelid skin and the suggestion of a festoon.
I personally do not like deep laser resufacing for this type of situation. I have had patients who did very well with medium deep chemical peels for the same purpose.
I think the biggest challenge you have is finding a surgeon who can help you without also harming you.