Can I be healing slower than other people after tumescent lipo?

Patience is a virtue when it comes to liposuction. It takes up to six months to get the contour from liposuction because of the way your body heals an the swelling. In terms of your incisions, it is difficult to tell what is going in without a picture. I like to protect my incisions with different advanced methods to limit the injury to them. Having plastic surgery outside the US is risky as the standards of care are much less strict. If your incisions are red and not looking right, then I would seek care from a bc plastic surgeon in your community to follow up with. You can go to most for a small out of pocket fee. Safety is most important and making sure there is nothing worrisome is worth it. Best wishes.

Swelling and hard areas after liposuction can all be normal for up to 3 to 6 months. But without knowing exactly what was done it is hard to advise you. I think you are going to have to find a local board certified plastic surgeon and see if they will assume your care.

Your description of is not unusual for early after liposuction.  Massage can be helpful and improvement over time is a good sign. Early scars can be red and appear inflamed.  As long as there is no drainage or significant pain, infection is less likely but have a plastic surgeon take a look to be sure no treatment is needed.