Solutions for extremely close set eyes and a very long nose

There is nothing that can be done for narrow set eyes. A rhinoplasty can be done to decrease the projection of the nose and the length of the nose can be shortened through the rhinoplasty procedure. Look for a surgeon who has performed thousands of rhinoplasty procedures who is to understand all of the nuances with your nose.  

Rhinoplasty can shorten a long nose and make it more in balance with your face. It can make the eyes appear wider if you have a bump on your nose which can be removed. This may help give you confidence, but you might discuss this with a psychologist as well, before proceeding. You can always do surgery later.

Sorry but there is no way to answer your question without a photo and possibly a face to face examination.