worried day 5 post-op
By prissy1 on 24 Jan 2011
My sides look uneven and what happened to my previous hour-glass shape? There is also a round puffiness smack in the center of my belly. Am I being paranoid?
I wore my binder for a whole month. It was such a comfort, and I just wore loose clothing.
I think I got my drain out on day 9 or 12, so it's not a given.
Don't rush anything, because you'll regret the delays it causes.
and I'm not just being lazy, I want to do stuff more then anything. I'm getting stir crazy. it's enough to make a girl go mad.
10 days, no way
Adrianne,
These are not dumb questions at all. This is a long and hard recovery so one must be prepared. I personally say 10 days is not enough even for a desk job. I realize that everyone heals at a different pace and some much quicker than others but....it's pretty rough the first 2-3 weeks post op.
Even sitting at a desk you will get stiff, sore and swollen. Some women even still have drains at that point. I am sure there are plenty of women who have gone back at 10 days post op but probably had regrets after they returned. So my recommendation is always take 2-3 weeks at a minimum.
If you are able to change this time frame I would seriously consider it.
I am so glad for that:)
Yeah you need to take it easy and get off your feet. That swelling is your body's way of telling you to STOP.
You need to let that body heal for the next 6 + weeks. You only get this one chance to heal properly so do it now. You can't fight this or your body will kick you square in the ass and you won't like it:(
Rest, ice, medicate, elevate, watch your sodium intake and drink plenty of water.
Well, it will get better, that I can tell you.
I was very cold for a couple of weeks. Just keep a hot water bottle handy for your feet, and that will help.
You just stay in that bed all weekend without any guilt. You need the rest :)
I am glad you made it through your first week and it will continue to get better. It just takes a long time to feel normal again.
Keep drinking your fluids, apply cold packs and keep those feet up.
I think this is the last weekend I'm wearing the binder...doc said 6 weeks but all the research I've done I don't think I need it after 2 weeks...I'll continue with spanx @ work because of the afternoon swelling.
Trying not to feel guilty that I haven't left my bed today but going back to work was a doozey!
Trust me it gets better. The swelling is very normal- for me it was worse after being on my feet all day. I used arinca cream on my tummy. Relax and take time for yourself. You will see this will all be so worth it. Hang in there.
I dont think I drank hardly enough water yesterday and today which is probably the issue.
Hi prissy,
I am sorry you are feeling this way. You have had a long week at a new job and not even two weeks post op yet. Eeks!!
Kick your feel up, ice packs, pain meds and drink a bunch of water tonight. One more day girl...you can do it!
My first two weeks back were the worst and then it was up hill starting week three.
Hang tight and baby yourself at night and all weekend.
Hi Prissy,
Mine took a good month for the big ugly scab to fall out. I would just go ahead and leave it alone now. Just keep it clean and dry and skip the ointment and peroxide.
If it starts to get stinky, red and sore have your doctor check it. I doubt it will though at this point.
I kept gauze over my belly botton but nothing over my tt incision...only issue is the "spanx" cami kept riding up since I wore a dress. It doesn't feel irritated but I came home and put peroxide then neosporin on it. I'm paranoid!
I've only left the house 3 times...one for dr appt and 2 others for running errands and returned home zapped of all energy.
I had my drain removed Friday which didn't hurt, although I took a vicodin b4 my appt! The sweeling @ my appt wasn't too bad and I could finally start to appreciate my new belly. There is a bit of puckering of the skin above my incision line but my ps promises it will smooth out over time, anyone else have this? He also told me to wear the binder for 6 weeks but I'm free to wear spanx to work.
I start a new job tomorrow and am worried what the heck to wear to accommodate afternoon "swell hell". Although I'm 40 I look and feel under 30 so my wardrobe reflects that...I have no elastic waist anything!!! Currently in panic mode.
Question- at what point do you stop wearing pads on top of your incision? I feel like it needs to breathe but scared it will be irritated if I don't wear a barrier. Any suggestions would be apprciated.
Lastly, since I'm no longer on antibiotics I had a glass of wine last night..can we say heaven? Of course I was asleep in 2.5 seconds lol!
Sorry this post is so long guys!!
Hey Girl,
I will be thinking about you tomorrow! You are a brave woman to be starting a new job 12 days post OP! I know..a girl has to do what a girl has to do!
Just wear the most comfy thing you have and keep the top button un done if necessary. Do go out and get some elastic waist skirts and pants though. Target has some pretty good things for little money.
Just take it slow tomorrow and go rest in your car at lunch if necessary. Try not to plan anything after work for the first 2-3 weeks back. Just make your focus working in the day and going right home to the bed after work. Your body will thank you :)
I will be anxious to hear how your first day goes...