Ok, so I got a tummy tuck back in July, ive stayed out of dating anyone and have not pursued anyone either seriously or casually because of it. I recently met someone who was actually pursuing me and we went out together, etc, and we ended up back at her house in her bed, she hesitated about going further when she saw the scar and asked about the scar and I told her about how it came to be that I had it which was due to not taking care of myself as a child up through the time I got it. Where if at all did I fault ? and Why do I feel so incredibly down about all this. I havent felt this down since before the surgery...Any input/advice would be highly appreciated because I don't think anyone who hasnt been in this situation understand. She hasnt called/texted me if she wanted to do something soon and to make matters more complicated we have classes together at school. I feel like a mess :* Thank You.