When support becomes interference

  • Matilda24
  • Yorkshire, N.England
  • 1 year ago

It's been a few months now since i joined Real Self and, though i haven't really moved an inch as far as my own journey goes, i've read enough reviews and questions that i know it's asking for trouble if you're cutting corners with rhinoplasty; meaning to say if you're going to any random surgeon just cos he's offered you a good deal or he did a great job on your cousin's breasts.  But what about people who have joined RS with their surgery already booked with a surgeon who isn't a rhinoplasty specialist? It's happened a few times just since i've been here, someone is really excited about their surgery and then i've seen their surgeon does tummy tucks here and there or has lots of really bad reviews, then these people have bad results after going through with their rhinoplasty. I've stopped checking out people's surgeons now, purely cos i want to leave them a comment saying NO! DON'T GO WITH HIM, HE'S NOT A RHINO SPECIALIST! I guess it all boils down to whether you want to be a part of the cure or the disease. I haven't said anything to people with a bad or inappropriate surgeon cos i haven't wanted to upset anybody or delay their surgery while they found a different surgeon, but is this right? Would people appreciate someone telling them they have booked a bad surgeon, and would they listen?  What do you guys and girls think? When does support become interference? Where is the line you do not cross when leaving somebody a comment?