Upcoming Breast augmentation March 6th...

Look how pretty you are!

I'm sorry you're feeling alone through this. It's so hard when your spouse isn't on board. He's probably just worried, but I know it can feel like rejection.

You might want to check out this blog post about husbands who hate plastic surgery. Sadly, it's not uncommon.

I would recommend you start your story in the Breast Augmentation review community and try to connect with other ladies who are also getting breast augmentation. There are a lot of them here.

Hope this helps! We're here for you.

I am right with you! I have 2 children one is 5 months and my daughter is 8 years. My husband is very supportive but at the same time is extremely busy with work. I am having my surgery the 23rd (next Thursday). He has taken a few days of the following week off, but I am worried about being able to lift my little guy when he returns to work.

I have wanted this so long as well. Yes, my 8 year old is a HUGE help. She is very capable of lifting my little one and placing him in my lap or on the floor for care in the off case that my husband HAS to go somewhere. I also have a few back ups in case when he returns to work I need a little extra help. I am sure I have made it through worse and came out okay! Just one more week...I can't wait. I actually am mourning the loss of my flat chest a little : )

I couldn't agree more! I don't know why I have turned this into a 10 year decision? It isn't about the money because I have spent double what I am paying for my procedure in Miraculous bras at VS. I have had 2 children naturally, I can handle pain. My father in law told me tonight that I should just be happy with what god gave me. I responded...yes god neglected to give me breasts therefore, he gave me a great PS and the means to purchase them. I am an overthinker....and now I am way overthinking size. I decided on 350cc a few weeks ago, now I keep looking at different before and after pictures and am thinking 350cc may be HUGE one me. Not sure if I should go smaller or keep with my motto....go big or go home : )

I never realized how many different kinds of boobs there are until I have looked at a million before and after pictures since considering my surgery. I agree that I like the look of the fake ones better. I am going with my gut and going with 350cc. It does seem a little big for my very petite build but isn't that why I am having this done? I would hate to go through all of this and be back in a year because they aren't big enough. I am flat chested which is proportionate to my body size...just doesn't work for me though. I don't think they will look freakish (once I get used to them) but there will be an obvious change.

So my PS's office just called to confirm my implant size. I guess it is absolutly official I am going with a 325cc implant filled to 350cc. I am still a little worried that I am going too big, but I guess we will see. I am sure that 200 ccs would look huge on me compared to what I have now. I am so glad there is a place for us to go and talk to other's going through the same thing right now. Only one of my girlfriends have theirs done and it isn't something you usually talk about with the rest of the world. Only 3 more days!

This is super exciting!! :) Yeah right, definately not the usual topic. :) 3 days!! I know what you mean, I am going to my max size and it is now just setting in on what is about to happen and how. It's so wild. I am happy, I am slightly scared, and I have 2 weeks, you have three days!! I am happy for you. :) :)

I had a complete mental breakdown in Walmart today! I went to buy a couple of sports bras for after surgery I tried on a C cup and freaked. It looked soooo huge! Now I feel more lost than ever on size. I need some reassurance! I asked my husband and his response was not very helpful "I don't want you to have too big of boobs" Yikes....that totally just made it worse. Now I am sitting here 72 hours before surgery totally worrying that I have chosen the wrong size and I am going to look like a mutant. I know they are going to be large on me now matter if I get 100cc or 350cc because I am totally flat chested now. Ahhhh....what to do?

Ok, relax. Don't pay attention to your husband. Laughing, sorry that sounded bad. But really, I think he might be slightly fearful of how hot you might be with (big boobs). ;) A "C" cup is not big really. I was reading an article yesterday when I was on my own quest for potentual future bras that said the average size for american women's breast is now 36 DD!! I couldn't believe it. I think for both of us having learned to live with so little for so long we will have to go through a slight adjustment period once the surgery is behind us. These husbands in fear of us running off into the sunset don't help. My husband had been simular in his support. (Not helpful) :( Anyway, take it from one woman to another, this is your choice, your happiness and your body. It's just a fact that we constantly sacrifice our needs for others. It's our nature. This time this one is for us. So that being said, Imagine your single, no children, no husband, no close friends to judge you, you are going to have this procedure done and no one will know otherwise. They will just know the new you for the first time. What would you do then? Meaning, sometimes we know what our heart wants but we are scared and we fearful of being judged and talked about by others. I say, do what makes you happy without thought to others. I guarentee they will adjust. This is allot of money and your body. You have obviously put allot of thought and desire into getting to this point. Don't crumble now. :) Push forward, go with your heart. Be happy. :) I plan to, I know when I get out of surgery I will be entering a new life and new world. It's what I have always wanted. I wouldn't have it any other way. :)

Haha I usually don't listen to my husband, but I was really reaching out for support and a much needed pep talk. You are so right! If nobody knew me and met me with boobs they wouldn't think anything about it. It is just an adjustment for those are used to looking at me with no chest to all of a sudden have a C cup. Wow! I didn't realize that the average was that large. I could look like I am going to fall over with a 36DD. I am finishing up the last minute house cleaning and prep before surgery. My PS's office called today and said they had a cancellation for tomorrow and asked if I wanted to take that spot. I thought about it for a minute, but arrangements for the kids ect. have already been made for the 23rd so I am sticking with the original plan. 48 hours from now, I will have boobs....still just doesn't seem real.

My procedure isn't until 4pm tomorrow and I have an hour drive from the surgical center. So, I don't think I will be up to doing much when I get home tomorrow. I will try to post Friday! 28 hours...yipppee!

A few more hours! : )

I know, I know...:) :) "Bay Watch Boobs" "Bay Watch Boobs"... :) :) LOL I have really lost it but oh well, it's fun!! Yippy!! A few more hours and you are going to be among the "C" Class Boobs!! This is sooooo cool. I can't wait to see how clothes look for the first with non deflated boobs!! LOL :) :)

I wish my procedure would have been in the morning! I am so hungry I could eat my own arm! I guess it is a good distraction though ; )

I don't know if you will get this before or after your surgery, but BEST WISHES!! :) Talk to you soon. :)