I'm 36 years old with 2 children. My youngest is almost 3. I'm 5'2" and 145 lbs. I have a lot of muscle mass but enough fat in the middle that I feel it when I sit and I hate being naked. I also can't wear tight shirts. :(. My self esteem really sucks. Ive already fully committed to a breast lift but can't decide about a tummy tuck. Even though I've had cesareans I feel very scared because its elective surger